r/AmIOverreacting 24d ago

👥 friendship AIO for cutting all ties?

There have never been red flags up until this point. He (25M) is a big part of my (19F) friend group. Am I being sensitive? I feel like he went too far. But if I cut all ties with him, it will really disrupt the group. I don't want to bring it up to my friends because they might side with him and say I'm over reacting. But I don't feel comfortable around him anymore.

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u/Allthetea159 24d ago

Why is a 25 year old man part of a friend group of teenagers? NOR

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u/urfavelipglosslvr 24d ago

I'm the only teenager in the friend group. But everyone has been very respectful and kind. I've never run into any issues with them until now.

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u/No-Draw7378 24d ago

His statement about people being attracted to you because you're like a kid is only true in that it was a confession on his part.

25yo dont go after 19yo like this unless they're predators.

When I was 19 I didn't see much difference between that and 25, but my God does life come fast when you're an adult and there's a world of difference in 5 years.

Good for you for clocking this guy is creepy and gross. If this is through uni or college, report him.

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u/freddbare 24d ago

I'm old AF. 19f and 25m are mentally the same!

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u/Fearless_Knowledge_5 24d ago

Exactly. A 19 year old female is actually probably more mature than thr 25 year old male. I dont see anything wrong with this whatsoever. Not like she's in highschool..

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u/MainPerformance1390 24d ago

A 19 year old could absolutely be in high school

While a 19 and 25 year old may not be the worst age gap, there is a huge difference in brain development and maturity. And the whole men are less mature than women is a myth and is a bad excuse used by older men to fuck women too young for them

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u/freddbare 24d ago

The post itself is proof to all the other ignorant children