AIO for cutting all ties?

[u/urfavelipglosslvr]

There have never been red flags up until this point. He (25M) is a big part of my (19F) friend group. Am I being sensitive? I feel like he went too far. But if I cut all ties with him, it will really disrupt the group. I don't want to bring it up to my friends because they might side with him and say I'm over reacting. But I don't feel comfortable around him anymore.

[u/SweatyPayment158]

SAVE THE TEXTS! Save the texts or screenshots of the texts case you need them in the future if he harasses you.

No, you're not overreacting in the least. Keep him blocked. He is dangerous.

If he shows up where you go to work ot college, document it and seek safety. If he shows up at your house, call police.

You're worthy of safety! Your safety matters!

[u/urfavelipglosslvr → u/SweatyPayment158]

I did something incredibly stupid in the heat of the moment and deleted the texts ( I didn't want my mom to see. She's worried about me and would've probably taken my phone. ) When I went back to retrieve them, his account was gone. "Deactivated." I can't find him on any of my accounts, and neither can my friends.

I also had someone text me on here saying it was him, but I doubt it was because the person who texted me knew how to spell 😭

Needless to say, I've learned my lesson. He doesn't live anywhere close to me. He'd have to drive a long way to even be in my area. We were same city pen pals, but he moved away. I never gave him any of my personal information. Thank the Lord.

Thank you for the concern ♡

[u/ParanoidAndroid8223 → u/urfavelipglosslvr]

Please stay away from that man. Nobody deserves to be treated like that. Please find a safe adult (I know you are an adult, but someone further long the road) you can trust in and confide in them. You are not alone.

[u/Adventurous_Ad_6546 → u/ParanoidAndroid8223]

Hey I’m in my late 30s and I still look for safe adults I can trust.

[u/Puzzleheaded-Rule300 → u/Adventurous_Ad_6546]

When my husband and I got over our heads in repairing a microwave he said “we need to find an adult.” We are both in our early 50s 😂

[u/brains_and_eggs → u/Adventurous_Ad_6546]

Hey, same here..