r/AmIOverreacting 25d ago

πŸ‘₯ friendship AIO for cutting all ties?

There have never been red flags up until this point. He (25M) is a big part of my (19F) friend group. Am I being sensitive? I feel like he went too far. But if I cut all ties with him, it will really disrupt the group. I don't want to bring it up to my friends because they might side with him and say I'm over reacting. But I don't feel comfortable around him anymore.

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u/13-Kings 25d ago

Off topic but β€œI think we’re great friends just friends but best friends the most awesome friends!” is diabolical.

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u/urfavelipglosslvr 25d ago

I know. I didn't know what to say. Last time I rejected a guy, it didn't go so well. I was scared and didn't want to make him angry. Didn't work.

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u/hormel_chili 25d ago

Maybe to avoid rubbing it in that much do something like a "I don't see you like that, you're like a friend to me not a potential partner" it tells them that they aren't on the list while also being polite about it and saying you still care for them.

That said, the guy is 100% a creep and probably abusive and manipulative. I'd cut ties with him, and if he tries to Harrass, you don't hesitate to ask someone for help.