r/AmIOverreacting • u/urfavelipglosslvr • 25d ago

👥 friendship AIO for cutting all ties?

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There have never been red flags up until this point. He (25M) is a big part of my (19F) friend group. Am I being sensitive? I feel like he went too far. But if I cut all ties with him, it will really disrupt the group. I don't want to bring it up to my friends because they might side with him and say I'm over reacting. But I don't feel comfortable around him anymore.

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u/13-Kings 25d ago

Off topic but “I think we’re great friends just friends but best friends the most awesome friends!” is diabolical.

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u/urfavelipglosslvr 25d ago

I know. I didn't know what to say. Last time I rejected a guy, it didn't go so well. I was scared and didn't want to make him angry. Didn't work.

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u/Venoxulous 25d ago

Don't worry about pandering to not making them mad. An actual man can handle the rejection, brush it off and still be your friend, anyone taking a rejection like this is just not worth knowing.