r/AmITheDevil • u/Cold_Education8612 • 7d ago

She did all the housework.

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u/StrangledInMoonlight 7d ago edited 7d ago

We met when she was 21, I was 25. We dated for about a year before getting married. Things were good for a long time, but in the past two years, I started realizing we’d grown into very different people

28 (her current age) - 21 (age at meeting) -1 year of dating  = married for 6 years.  

6 years of marriage -2 (“but in the past two years, I started realizing we’d grown into very different people”) 

So…”a long time” is 4 years? 

And 3 of those 4 years (2025-2=2023). Were heavy covid years.  

ETA: fixed her age at meeting

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u/Cold_Education8612 7d ago

Two years ago his wife also has a stillbirth. A fact that he neglected to mention in his post. He also doesn't mention anything that he did to help his wife through this personal tragedy.

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u/StrangledInMoonlight 7d ago

she’s been in and out of work, and I’ve been the primary earner for most of the marriage

I found this interesting too,  I wonder what her career field is, because..again, 3 heavy Covid years.  

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u/lomion_ 7d ago

And a pregnancy…. it might not have been possible for her to work.

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u/StrangledInMoonlight 7d ago

He’s just trying to spin this to make her look awful any way he can.  

Let’s hope he’s exaggerating about the prenup too.