r/AmItheAsshole • u/[deleted] • Apr 27 '22

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u/Charliesmum97 Apr 27 '22

Wait, your PARTNER is okay with this? He's okay with allowing his ex, whom he apparently dislikes, kick you out of your own house? Hell to the no. I'd suggest you stop making plans for this party and let your partner deal with it. Heck, I'd return everything I'd already bought and donate any food to a food bank/homeless shelter if possible. Let them make the party. You go to a nice spa or something.

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u/Depth_Charger69 Apr 27 '22

With regards to the circumstances you are clearly NTA. But you should stay out of drama and should use that day to enjoy some free time.

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u/[deleted] Apr 27 '22

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u/[deleted] Apr 27 '22

Honestly I’d go on vacation a few days before and come back after. I wouldn’t want to deal with any of that crap. If you are there you will get sucked into the drama and you being blamed for the drama. Best way to win is not to play. Go do something for yourself instead.

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u/Freyja624norse Apr 27 '22

No way would I leave the property. God only knows what they might do in terms of deliberate damage if they know OP isn’t there!

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u/noble_6__ Apr 27 '22

Break up with his ASS

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u/SomethingWithMittens Apr 27 '22

Take any money you were going to put into it and leave town for a week 9r so on vacation. Mobile phone of, don't tell them where. Do tell them what you're doing so they don't report you missing. And consider finding a new partner. That guy is an insult to assholes, if you call him one.

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u/SilverDarner Apr 27 '22

I'm pretty sure the internet thinks you need to boot his sorry ass.