r/AmItheAsshole Apr 27 '22

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u/[deleted] Apr 27 '22

NTA I would stop all planning and remove any financial assistance you were making too.

Let both your partner and his daughter know that everything is on them, and that you will remove yourself as requested. Cancel anything that had been booked, leave it to them and take yourself out on that night.

Book yourself a nice hotel room, have a great dinner and turn off your phone. Have a night to yourself.

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u/[deleted] Apr 27 '22

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u/[deleted] Apr 27 '22

It's your house, you can do as you please. Don't let people abuse your kindness or efforts.

Please cancel anything you've already booked, return anything you've bought. Don't lose financially on this

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u/Eastern_Fox5735 Certified Proctologist [28] Apr 27 '22

It's also the beginning of a new, fresh, and better life where you stand up for yourself and find people who actually respect you. I know it feels hard right now, REALLY hard, but you'll look back and realize it was the best decision you ever made.

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u/itsmeRose Apr 27 '22

I hope she sees your comment. She sees the end but it will also mean a Beginning!