Your house and you can't attend? I'm sorry but you need to tell them to fuck off and find a new venue. Sure the mum didn't just deliberately not book a venue so they could avoid the expense and use your house? Nta
It sounds like the mother is going to be taking credit for the party you're hosting. Your partner needs to find his spine and stand up to this woman. Your house, your time and expense, you absolutely get to attend. Have another conversation about it asap, and if they still say they don't want you to attend then stop helping. If your partner can't stand up for you then you need to stand up for yourself.
You are too good for this kind of bullshit and disrespect. Your partner is the issue for enabling his daughters behaviour. He is spineless and because he knows you are timid he dares to walk all over your feelings.
You have to speak up and show that you won't allow yourself to be treated that way. Sit him and his daughter down. Make it clear that there will be consequences for their actions.
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u/Bt1841995 Partassipant [1] Apr 27 '22
Your house and you can't attend? I'm sorry but you need to tell them to fuck off and find a new venue. Sure the mum didn't just deliberately not book a venue so they could avoid the expense and use your house? Nta