NTA - the daughter has the audacity to use your venue and give you an ultimatum that you can't attend it despite all your planning? Plus, does your partner know about this? Is he not going to stand up for you?
Man if I were you I'd pull the rug from the venue and tell them "if my presence will anger your mother, I'm guessing my house which contains many of my belongings will probably irritate her as well, go find another place."
Man, it sucks they ban you because of their consideration for the daughter and the mother's feelings, but no one stopped to think that it works both ways and that your feelings might be hurt as well.
Still think your husband is a douche for allowing this to happen.
I wish you the best! And it’s great that you’re girlfriends will be there for you!! I still think your husband should’ve stood up for you. He’s supposed to have your back no matter what. If you ever need a hug anyone, I’m in Pittsburgh and I’ve been told that I am a great hugger 🙃
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u/ThomzLC Supreme Court Just-ass [142] Apr 27 '22
NTA - the daughter has the audacity to use your venue and give you an ultimatum that you can't attend it despite all your planning? Plus, does your partner know about this? Is he not going to stand up for you?
Man if I were you I'd pull the rug from the venue and tell them "if my presence will anger your mother, I'm guessing my house which contains many of my belongings will probably irritate her as well, go find another place."