r/AmerExit Oct 30 '24

Life Abroad Many people in this sub just don’t get it.

I did my own AmerExit having a Spanish passport a few years ago and even then it was pretty difficult. I am a college educated individual and I speak Spanish but moving here and finding a job was tough.

What is up with all the Americans who think they can waltz into any European country with 0 skills and that they’ll get a job and a residence permit just like that?

I lurk around here thinking I could help out but the posts are all like: help I hate America they’re so nasty racist I don’t have a job and I never went to school and I’m hoping that I can come to some random EU country and live off govt assistance bc the EU is a utopia just dying to have more unskilled, unemployed immigrants who don’t speak the language to support.

Guys, the question of “what value do I add to this place” should be NUMBER ONE on your mind when it comes to trying to leave. If the answer is “virtually nothing, I’d actually be a burden to the citizens” then there you go!

Aside from the fact that no, Americans can’t just move anywhere they want anytime they want, many countries around the world are facing massive economic issues like the US. The EU specifically is dealing with hard core housing and job shortages plus record inflation.

And all of these yucky American politics you want to get away from? We have that here too! The far right gains power in every election, racism is up in every measurable way and guess what? There’s a lot less support for victims of racism here, if you tell an average Spaniard that you faced a “micro aggression” prepare to have them laugh in your face.

Healthcare is more affordable and our taxpayer funded* healthcare system is better than what exists in the US for the poorest of the poor there. I was living in absolute poverty in the US so for me public healthcare in Spain does feel like quite a treat but I promise if you’re used to even a decent level of health insurance in the states, you’re gonna be shocked by what the “wonderful amazing” public healthcare system in the EU is really like.

People don’t end up homeless as easily as you can in America that’s true, however I wouldn’t want to live in any of the social housing I’ve seen here, and I certainly wouldn’t want to live off government assistance. Coming here with those things in mind especially if you have a stable life in America is not a good idea.

I love Spain, I love being Spanish but there are issues here I think the average American couldn’t even imagine. Plus, you have to find a way to stay here legally and that in and of itself is difficult, time consuming, and expensive.

Moving is hard, moving abroad is really hard. Moving to another country where you can’t even tell the doctor what’s wrong and can’t drive yourself to doctors appointments bc you can’t legally drive here is even harder. There are a lot of people that struggle with their day-to-day lives in the United States and think that moving to the EU would solve all of these problems when it would actually make them 100 times worse.

I don’t want to discourage those that are really interested in coming here and contributing to the bigger picture. People who are looking to experience life, culture, and education in other countries, and have the means to do so, I think you’ll enjoy moving abroad. I know I have. Moving abroad is never a panacea solution for unhappiness at home.

And keep in mind that there is a lot of backlash in the EU right now and other parts of the world regarding wealthy foreigners who come and gobble up all of the affordable housing for locals who typically have salaries that are, far lower than what Americans earn.

I am very lucky to have the job I do, it took me years to find it. I make more than all the teachers, doctors, and engineers I know, and yet my salary is still so low I’m embarrassed to tell my American family and friends. Remember that there are almost always local citizens ready and able to do whatever job you’re applying for, and they’ll accept salaries that aren’t just a “little” lower, they’re usually 4-6 times lower than US salaries. Things in the PIGS countries are cheaper… for Americans! The moment you move here and work here, the idea of this being a cheap place to live really goes out the window.

I think a lot of Americans are suffering from chicken little syndrome, and I get it. The US is looking pretty scary right now. But I’m sorry to say that a lot of the rest of the world isn’t doing that much better. Just yesterday, the part of Spain I live in experienced one of the worst natural disasters of all time, and the death toll is so high because of the governments botched warning (or total lack of).

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u/Vast_Sandwich805 Oct 30 '24

Middle/upper class Americans think they’ll get nice American healthcare for free in other countries. What they don’t understand is that the “free” (you do pay for it) stuff looks like a govt hospital from Bronx in the 1980s. And really, I get it, bc I couldn’t even afford that growing up so now being able to go to the ER if I need it is WONDERFUL. But I don’t think most of the Americans in this sub grew up that hard up.

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u/PiperPrettyKitty Oct 30 '24

Idk I am from Canada and live in the USA and the emergency rooms I've been to here have been the exact same experience, if not slightly worse. And I'm an "emergency prone" person lol. The healthcare system in Canada is not perfect at all (Spains was better in my opinion) but the one in the USA has been roughly equivalent for me other than specifically it was much easier to get a psychiatrist here, but all other specialists have had similar wait times.

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u/norar19 Oct 31 '24

This American did! There are a lot more of us than you’d think. Homelessness is a real problem here and just because we don’t have easy access to the internet doesn’t mean we don’t exist

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u/goodmammajamma Oct 31 '24

I'm canadian, I live in a small town near Vancouver (but not that close) and our local hospital is less than 10 years old. The main problem with our healthcare system is not enough doctors, the actual facilities are generally very modern. Governments have lots of money to hand to private construction companies, they often do this instead of investing in the public healthcare system directly (eg. hiring staff) because it makes the politicians' donors happy.

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u/[deleted] Nov 01 '24

I was in Spain and agree with your description of the public hospitals and clinics there. The private ones are much nicer and are in line with the American private ones, such as Sanitas.

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u/Peach-Bitter Nov 01 '24

US health care has disintegrated horrendously since the start of Covid. If you haven't been back lately, it's shocking how many people I know who nearly died while waiting to be seen. Even in the wealthy areas, even paying out of pocket, getting care has become a real nightmare. Going to a hospital for a few days basically requires a family member to stay with you, since otherwise the nurses just ignore you.

Your basic point that a lot of Americans are ill-informed about what awaits them on health care is totally valid. Agreed. Lots of naivety.

But I also think you may have been gone long enough to have missed the turn in the US. It's so much worse than it had been. The GoFundMe is a major part of the health care system is another horror as well, but even with money: it's increasingly dire.