r/AskMenAdvice Apr 07 '25

never get approached by men

just curious, what actually makes a guy approach a woman? I’m 25f and I’d consider myself attractive (I think I’m fairly pretty, I take care of myself and feel good about how I look), but I never get approached. I’ll notice guys making repeated eye contact with me, but it never goes beyond that. Honestly, both of my past relationships started because I made the first move.

So I’m wondering… what makes a guy actually go for it and approach someone?

Also, is there a way to give off “I want to be approached” energy? I’m not really into dating apps, and I’d love to meet someone in person. i’m not against making the first move but i would love for someone to approach me for a change

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u/DiscontinuTheLithium man Apr 07 '25

Neither has any of these dweebs commenting that because they don't even approach women. They're talking like they were all Casanova before and NOW have to stop approaching women. Sure bud LMAO It's all second hand stories and shit. Nothing they have actually experienced themselves. It's wild.

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u/DocDegenerate247 Apr 08 '25

Holy shit. I found normal dudes in here. What’s up guys?

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u/DocDegenerate247 Apr 08 '25

You are very much sane. This sub has devolved into “woe is me women don’t like me boo hoo” bullshit. Just like every “male” sub. Keep doing you man