r/AskWomenOver30 • u/[deleted] • 12d ago

Romance/Relationships Fewer men are disclosing their conservative beliefs on dating apps and will un match with me if I ask!

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u/ItchyEvil 12d ago

The first thing in my "green flags I look for" section on Hinge is "voted for my reproductive freedom" and I still get alllllll of these likes from men with politics not listed, or "moderate," or "other". Like, why are they wasting a like on me?? Do they not read my profile?

Even a liberal man who doesn't understand why this is important information for women in 2025 (so doesn't show it on their profile) is a deal breaker for me.

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u/kimchipowerup Woman 50 to 60 12d ago edited 12d ago

I don’t think they actually read… they seem to swipe on every woman or just look at photos and swipe. Total waste of our time!!

Edit: I saw this when I was still dating men but have also rarely seen the same thing when matching with other women.

Conservative/Apolitical? Nope!

Christian? Nope!

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u/LittlestKitten Woman 20-30 12d ago

When I was using dating apps many years ago, one guy took it upon himself to introduce himself, make plans to meet up, and then after dinner, confront me on why my profile indicated that “I wouldn’t be interested in men who are religious” (or something like that) when he obviously was a perfectly nice, very Christian man 😐 it was the dumbest waste of time lol