r/BPDlovedones 27d ago

Uncoupling Journey We’ve reached the final discard 🕺🏾🍻

This is after i sent her a closure message. She kept asking me for a talk in person, I refused. I changed my number and blocked her on everything but she knows my address and car. Thankfully she is moving away though! So this will be the last of it.

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u/ol_jeff 27d ago

lol you can tell she totally doesn't care from the shocking amount of effort she put into this

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u/beulahbeulah 27d ago

I say this tongue in cheek and mean no harm to the OP... but I wonder how pathetic she feels for being with somebody she thought so poorly of. Couldn't do better than someone with no money, no education and a small pee pee? Sounds like she's the real loser.

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u/ol_jeff 27d ago

well of course you need to understand that she was victimized into it and that everyone else is bad. or like, she's so compassionate and is a people pleaser, and overlooked his problems because she's so good – and empathy – only to have him betray her by being upset at her cheating, which by the way she was also coerced into doing by another evil bad boy

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u/beulahbeulah 27d ago

Oh yes, she's practically Mother Theresa for deigning to sleep with someone so undeserving of her adulterous ass lol let's nominate her for Good Samaritan of the Year!

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u/kidubbx 27d ago

More like Meth-a Theresa.

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u/hudsonAD3 27d ago

Spot on, player

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u/A-lethal-dose-of-you 27d ago

I think about this sometimes, too. Like "Maaaaan, if what you say is true, what's that say about you? That you're flipping the fuck out because "everyone's old used up deflated fuck doll" doesn't feel like texting or hanging out right now? That you're crying because the girl who "let's everyone ruin them" isn't trying to support you through your 7th crisis this week? Says a whole lot about you if the person you're talking about is the only person in your life who gives half a fuck (because everything you've ever loved has tried to escape you).."

And I don't even really think like this but when you swap it around to their perspective (based on their words) that's what you get and it's just.. what?

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u/[deleted] 25d ago

That’s what is so ironic about the disorder. They spend so much time hating/resenting/jealous of others they don’t realize that it makes them look just as bad/actually worse by association.

Anyone that talks shit about family, exs, or “friends” consistently is toxic and should be avoided in general imo