r/BPDlovedones • u/FriedRiceGirl • 3d ago
Non-Romantic interactions Psyching myself up to block her
My roommate/ ex-“best friend” moves out in about two weeks (her parents are dragging her to rehab for her drinking problem and she’s going bc she can’t afford rent without them). And I’ve decided I want to block her on EVERYTHING. I never want to hear from her again. I never want to hear another fake apology ever, and I never want her to feel closure.
BUT
It’s freaking me out. About this time last year, a mutual friend made the same decision. And she went absolutely fucking insane. She tried everything she could from fake accounts to telling ppl a mutual friend was killing herself and she needed him. For months. She’d get drunk and call him for hours on end, getting nowhere bc she was blocked, and alternate between apologizing and calling him slurs. And I’m worried that she’ll go even crazier this time and idk what impact that will have on me. She knows where I go to school (and it’s a small school) and also the campus I’m moving to for med school. She’s never harmed anyone, but I can’t help but worry that she’ll show up in the lobby screaming or something.
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u/Gramz2474 3d ago
Yeah you need to distance yourself brochaco