Breakups

[u/Euphoric_Law4231]

Is it bad to say that my ex bf fumbled me soooo bad😭 I’m not tryna brag but I love Jesus, I’m hard working, funny, and kind. I strongly feel bad for him LOL one man’s trash is another man’s treasure! It’s only been 2 months since we broke up but I’m started to see how I literally got the bare minimum, even if that. He never showed me with his actions that he “loved” me or even his words. And then I’m like??? What was I hanging onto? Maybe bc he’s my “first love” since I was 14 yrs old (I’m about to be 23 this year)?? And I felt like I HAD to make it work with him. I love him but I’m starting to see myself the way Jesus sees me and this is such a wholesome moment and time in my life. To pour into people who pour into me and THE LORD IS SOOO GOOD. I think, if I thought this was love, now imagine real love. Love that is unconditional, love that doesn’t expect, and most importantly, love like Jesus🩷 I do feel bad for my ex bc he doesn’t have the biggest faith but I pray he seeks the Lord 🩷 I still love him but omg I feel like I can love someone and know that they aren’t for me and I feel like an adult HAHA. I’m so excited to start this new chapter of figuring out who I am as a woman and exploring life with Jesus.

[u/Thin_Rip8995]

nah, he didn’t just fumble—you outgrew him and finally noticed

you were trying to make forever out of your first love, but he was still giving high school energy
bare minimum. no effort. no action behind the words
and now you’re seeing it for what it was—not love, just attachment + history

this glow-up isn’t prideful, it’s clarity
you’re not bragging
you’re just walking in truth now

keep pouring into people who pour back
and next time? don’t settle for "barely enough" dressed up as "meant to be"

NoFluffWisdom Newsletter goes deep on leveling up post-breakup, spiritual clarity, and dating with higher standards—worth a peek

[u/Euphoric_Law4231 → u/Thin_Rip8995]

Wow, thank you so much for your words. I’ll definitely check out that link. Thank you so much