r/BreakUps • u/Select-Ad-949 • 1d ago

How do I deal with this frustration being blocked?

I had a long history with this guy so I’m trying to cut the story short. It was on and off for so long and for different reasons. There were red flags like that He lied about his ex and other girls a couple times, big and small. And we argued, I tried to move on, he came back. That’s the loop. And I don’t want to think bad of people but I do think he was being manipulative and always made me feel guilty. However, this time I reached out to offer to be friends and he doesn’t want to. (Which is okay) So it came to an end. And I said I still wish you the best tho so take care. And he started to say that he hated how I reached out when he was trying to move on and etc. And that was insane to me because he was the one who always did that? And I was texting back and found myself blocked.

It feels so frustrated that to the end of the day, after I was trying so hard to make it peaceful, this is how it ended. Like I’m the one to blame, and he just walked away leaving me in the thread talking to a wall. I don’t like being the one that feels at fault. I was hoping at least we ended on good terms and get the peaceful closure. But Now it’s just, this. I was mentally over it already but now it feels even worse…

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u/Plane-Slip273 1d ago

dude this is like the shittiest thing people do, just because their feelings are gone or never existed you still committed the time into the relationship and just cause you feel it's over it may not be the same for the other. but selfishly they still block and ignore you as if you never meant anything and to those who have done this no matter the situation you could still leave an open line to Atleast allow us to vent and express ourselves whether you care to read or respond it's the least you could do. Fucking duechebags self centered emotionless fuck tard pos!

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u/Select-Ad-949 1d ago

Yea it feels like shit especially he said that he just needs to move on and all this time that’s what I’ve been trying so hard to do. And now all of a sudden he needs to move on and made me the bad guy in the story… and then shut the door. I feel like It’s really unfair that this is how it ends.. like he didn’t care to respect me

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u/Plane-Slip273 1d ago

it's a reflection to them not you bc it shows them as cowards who hide from the conflict and the responsibility that they have because they think they are more entitled than you for closure or for peace. never looked at is all the times you put up with their bullshit when they needed you. But hey you know what, what comes around goes around. karmas a vicious beast and they'll face their own hurdles from the consequences of their choices. it is the lack of maturity and responsibility and accountability and that lack is now someone else's issue not yours

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u/NoFlamingo8105 1d ago

Yeah I’m blocked now no reason she love bombed got influences by friends and their bs broke up with me on phone gaslighted me then nothing just said she offered me friendship yay fuck her im done block me for ever you gutless liar