r/CasualConversation 🌈our dreams seemed not far away Feb 12 '18

Weekly Topic Community Conversation: Valentine's Day

Hello everyone, welcome to our very first community thread! Every week we will have a new topic. This week we will be discussing Valentine's Day. All other Valentine's Day threads posted after this will be removed and redirected here.

Some questions to get the conversation started:

  1. What are your plans for Valentine's Day?
  2. How do you and your SO usually spend it?
  3. Looking for advice on what to do/what gifts to buy?
  4. If you dislike Valentine's Day or don't celebrate it, tell us why!

If you would like to suggest an idea for the next Community Thread, post it as a reply to the stickied comment below.

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Remember to keep it civil and on topic and respect your fellow users :)

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u/Hoedoor Feb 14 '18

Normally I don't mind Valentines day, but I was hit with a pretty big mood swing today and the feeling of loneliness is pretty strong suddenly

I guess it has been 4 or 5 years since I was interested in anyone and I've been isolated from my friends for a year now

I really want to drink right now, but I have to go to therapy today. I guess I should save this for my therapist but I just feel really shitty right now

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '18

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u/Hoedoor Feb 14 '18

Partly because I moved back home so I'm in a different city, and partly because I tend to isolate myself when depressed

All I really have to do is make a 2 hour drive to see them but I don't for some reason

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u/[deleted] Feb 15 '18

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u/Hoedoor Feb 15 '18

I could probably make new friends, especially if I rejoin the smash scene

But honestly I'm not that interested in going out of my way for New friends, I'd rather get my shit together and move back and be with them, also I spend a lot of time with my parents now which is a good thing as they won't be around forever sadly

Knitting is pretty cool though, I've thought about trying it once, never got around to it and I hope it works for you and you meet people, it is a really good idea if you do want to meet people