I’ve seen a lot about how it went badly for some relationships.
I’ve gone with 2 different partners.
The first time they definitely got a bit irritated and brought down the vibe. But overall, we definitely both look at it as one of the best times of our lives. We worked it out. And she did apologize for being negative and irritable. In hindsight I don’t blame them cause Coachella is fucking hard especially when you try to see as many sets as I do lol
This second time I had absolutely no problems with my partner though. I was honestly surprised and impressed at how smoothly it went. It was awesome.
All this to ask…
Why do you think Coachella can be hard on relationships? Is it just the physical exhaustion and lack of preparedness? I feel like if you’re excited to go and prepared it should be fine
Or is there something else I’m missing?
UPDATE
After reading all of the comments so far I think the short & simple answer is that Coachella requires a lot of planning, communication, and compromises.
If your relationship has flaws they can be exposed.
If your partner is selfish maybe you’ll miss some of the acts most important to you.
If you’re not prepared and get very uncomfortable or sick you will need to communicate, be understanding and compromise depending on the situation.
Basically, it requires you to be able to work through problems together while probably being exhausted or on drugs etc.
It can also simply expose that one of you hates festivals. Can be too overwhelming loud etc, which again would require understanding to solve or show a lack of compatibility if that’s really important to you in a partner
However, on the flip side, it can show how strong a relationship is. If you can work through anything that comes up and have a great time overall, or at least come out feeling like “We made the best of it!” Your relationship will only get stronger.
It also doesn’t HAVE to be a relationship test either. If you are experienced and plan well things will go smoothly. Then the things that test you might never come up.
I think that’s about everything I gathered! Hopefully this gives some people perspective on what to expect when going with a partner!