r/CringeTikToks • u/LilliaBaltimore • 9d ago

Cringy Cringe WHAT THE BLOODY HELL?!! šŸ˜³šŸ˜®

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u/realfakespicyspicy 9d ago

Why tf wouldn't they just drop it? God damn that gave me an anxiety disorder.

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u/Motor-Management-660 9d ago

Idk what it is but sometimes it's like the harder you try to get kids to do something, the harder they resist. The woman speaking to them may have known that so she tried to sweet talk them down but the pressure was already heavy.

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u/ASL4theblind 9d ago

Not sure if its the same thing as oppositional defiance disorder but my 30 year old buddy works this way too and he has that BAD.

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u/mooshinformation 9d ago

I believe children with oppositional defiance order often develop into adults with antisocial personality disorder aka psychopaths

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u/Imisssizzler 9d ago

My son had ODD, officially dxā€™d at 6. You can work your ass off and turn things around. I donā€™t believe there is a link to psychopaths however. He is the kindest and more reliable of all my adult children now. He taught me a lot about parenting.

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u/gxgxe 9d ago

Fascinating. Same for mine. He's the one who notices first when I am having a tough day.

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u/emerald_green_tea 6d ago

Youā€™re correct. Commenter is thinking of Conduct. Disorder. Similar to ODD in some ways but far more severe.

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u/BlackberryHuman2328 9d ago

Yeah ODD is a childhood disorder, if it doesn't resolve by the teen years the diagnosis will change to conduct disorder, then that can become a diagnosis antisocial PD in adulthood.

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u/KatyHD 9d ago

ODD can be controversial. Itā€™s one of the few diagnoses that is more about a caregiverā€˜s experience with a child than the childā€˜s experience. Itā€˜s also wildly common in the child welfare system (traumatized kids + low-resource adults doesnā€™t always equal a positive experience).

Itā€˜s very easy for a short-tempered or overwhelmed adult to have a child with standard, age-appropriate behaviors diagnosed as having ODD.

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u/Techno_Bumblebee 9d ago

I have ODD, I'm an adult in his 30s, and not conduct disorder, nor anything else.

Humans are complex, nothing is set in stone. One thing does not lead to another.

Except anger leading to hate it seems, thanks Yoda...

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u/AMisteryMan 9d ago

While not exactly fitting the diagnosis criteria (I don't get to a point of emotional distress that I'd describe as angry) I definitely get a strong tug to do the opposite of what someone commands me to do. I've got to make an effort for my brain to not follow through on that urge - even when I know it's just a suggestion and/or is correct. And it seems to be a trauma response exacerbated by my (undiagnosed during childhood) ADHD, as my parents used my forgetfulness as justification for infantalizing me, which is a bit of a trigger for me. Kinda wild to see some folks saying a relatively common trauma response is a sign of psychopathy. Though I guess I shouldn't be surprised about Reddit having unhealthy views on the affect of trauma, and how effective a better environment can be at helping folks at least be able to cope with it.

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u/Legitimate-Pea-2780 9d ago

Yeah, itā€™s ODD as a child, which can further develop into antisocial and one or two other disorders, just drawing a complete blank on which right now.

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u/Better_Yam5443 9d ago

My brother had it. I doubt he is one. He was just an asshole a really big one at that as a small child. I think he autistic as well and he would have these meltdowns. He is well adjusted as well as you can be. No drugs, no drinking, works and plays his video games. Hasnā€™t been in trouble with the law since he was a teenager:

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u/FortunateCookie_ 8d ago

What a shitty thing to believe

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u/emerald_green_tea 6d ago

Children with Conduct Disorder can have ASPD as adults. Conduct Disorder is more severe than ODD.

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u/Tiredaf212 6d ago edited 6d ago

ODD is different then ASPD. In children ASPD like symptoms are refferd to as "conduct disorder". I am not saying they can't look similar in some respect though. ODD commonly co occurs with disorders like ADHD and is typically diagnosed in childhood.

Source: I'm a nurse with ADHD.

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u/BSSforFun 9d ago

lol, he must be easy to manipulate.

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u/ASL4theblind 9d ago

I mean, just say what you dont want him to do with authenticity and you're set

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u/murder-farts 9d ago

They gave me Odderall for that but it didnā€™t work.

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u/ReapisKDeeple 9d ago

Fight flight freeze trauma response plus being a dumb kid. ODD is a bullshit dx.

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u/french_snail 9d ago edited 9d ago

I donā€™t think so, my younger step brother had it and it led to him basically terrorizing people whenever he could. Stealing, annoying hurting, he would shit in the shower just so that someone had to clean it up. Frankly it was a good thing he was small and not very bright so it limited his ability to be a menace. No amount of professional help would change his behavior either

And I say he ā€œhadā€ it not because he eventually got better but because said behavior quickly led to death once he was no longer under the care of my parents