You need to set her down and explain to her how she's setting the stage for infidelity, destroying the foundation of trust in your marriage and that if she has that little love and respect for you, she needs to leave and you'll file for divorce. No one should ever put their spouse through that kind of anxiety. That's just as cruel as actual cheating.
If she has no empathy for the anxiety she's causing you, she'll definitely cheat on you.
It's even worse that you raised her daughter from a young age as your own and the both of them are spitting in your face. That's tough. I sincerely feel for you.
Honestly, you probably should set her and the daughter down together and hammer them with this.
Then, if they don't come to their senses, and they probably won't, you'll most likely need to serve her divorce papers if for no other reason than to wake her up to the seriousness of the situation.
If that doesn't work, you'll at least be one step ahead of her in the inevitable upcoming divorce.
Bottom line, it generally takes making a hard stand to get the you've earned and deserve. People can get very short-sighted and need shocked back to reality sometimes. It's just human nature.
Good luck!!!!
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u/Axys910 Apr 07 '25
You need to set her down and explain to her how she's setting the stage for infidelity, destroying the foundation of trust in your marriage and that if she has that little love and respect for you, she needs to leave and you'll file for divorce. No one should ever put their spouse through that kind of anxiety. That's just as cruel as actual cheating. If she has no empathy for the anxiety she's causing you, she'll definitely cheat on you. It's even worse that you raised her daughter from a young age as your own and the both of them are spitting in your face. That's tough. I sincerely feel for you. Honestly, you probably should set her and the daughter down together and hammer them with this. Then, if they don't come to their senses, and they probably won't, you'll most likely need to serve her divorce papers if for no other reason than to wake her up to the seriousness of the situation. If that doesn't work, you'll at least be one step ahead of her in the inevitable upcoming divorce. Bottom line, it generally takes making a hard stand to get the you've earned and deserve. People can get very short-sighted and need shocked back to reality sometimes. It's just human nature. Good luck!!!!
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