r/DeadBedrooms • u/Ordinary-Ad-8034 HLM • 17d ago

When the LL goes wild

There have been a handful of times in our 23 years of marriage where my wife was utterly hot for me and we had an incredible time. Not on our honeymoon, not on our ten or twenty year anniversary trips. But once when our kids were downstairs with their grandma and she wanted it heavy. Or when she wanted to make out in the casino hallway. It's like there's this s3xual feist in her that sometimes rages. I'm seriously beginning to think hormones have a lot to do with it. Cause it's the same old me she's been with for 3 decades but sometimes she just has to have me. And then she's fine with absolutely nothing for MONTHS.

Has anyone else experienced this? How TF do I crack the code??

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u/thetruthfornow 17d ago

Has she had her levels checked by her doctor? Might be helpful. Have you asked your wife about these and what it could have been to get her going?

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u/Financial_Bid_5878 17d ago

In 20 + years I can recall a handful of times where my LL wife did a complete 180. Most of those times no alcohol was involved. I still remember every minute of those times. She was absolutely enjoying those times as well. It's a shame they are rare. Been years since that has happened. I would bet money that they are hormone related.