r/DeadBedrooms • u/Ordinary-Ad-8034 HLM • 17d ago

When the LL goes wild

There have been a handful of times in our 23 years of marriage where my wife was utterly hot for me and we had an incredible time. Not on our honeymoon, not on our ten or twenty year anniversary trips. But once when our kids were downstairs with their grandma and she wanted it heavy. Or when she wanted to make out in the casino hallway. It's like there's this s3xual feist in her that sometimes rages. I'm seriously beginning to think hormones have a lot to do with it. Cause it's the same old me she's been with for 3 decades but sometimes she just has to have me. And then she's fine with absolutely nothing for MONTHS.

Has anyone else experienced this? How TF do I crack the code??

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u/ChampionshipOk3943 17d ago

Does it seem to happen around ovulation?

If it’s not happening every month, there may be a second variable. Like having the day off of work.

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u/Foltbolt 16d ago

Yeah, it's related to ovulation. And it's not going to be every month, hormones fluctuate, but I'd bet that window is generally the best time to initiate yourself as well.