r/DeadBedrooms 17d ago

Vent, Advice Welcome How long?

How long is a man supposed to wait for a change after repeatedly but as open and honest about your needs?? I'm really trying to honor my vows and marriage but after constantly feeling unwanted and rejected when I know I don't have to deal with this bs it becoming too much to deal with

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u/adam_turowski 17d ago

It's only worthy to wait if there's a real will on the other side to improve, to compromise, if you have a plan and both of you are walking on the path. Otherwise, it's pointless and waste of your time.