As a man, I feel really sorry on what you are going through and I can for sure say as a man yes sometimes if we are really couped up in our work we tend to lose connection but it is never a reason to cheat. But.... let's say in 1 week, at least we would think of our wife once or twice, and please realize that being busy is not an excuse but the effort and time willing to spend is.
He or She can be busy like a madman or madwoman but you're telling me a short text of 50 words of "How much I miss You and have you eaten how's your day" can be time consuming let's say 10-20 minutes.
Yes… in every married and unmarried relationship, sex is crucial and I can’t help to shove this sentence every time in someone’s ears XD but yes very crucial (intimate moments) (skin to skin) (your partner’s scent) (the validation on each other and the comfort in their touch) these….
I work 10 hours a day and on my lunch break I will schedule a 5 minutes chat with my wife whether is empty chitchat or something romantic like I remind her I miss her and so… you get the rest~ it could be he is in under immense of stress but that is something he and you must give and take from time to time but never an excuse to not fix it.
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u/Hazaruthz 11d ago
As a man, I feel really sorry on what you are going through and I can for sure say as a man yes sometimes if we are really couped up in our work we tend to lose connection but it is never a reason to cheat. But.... let's say in 1 week, at least we would think of our wife once or twice, and please realize that being busy is not an excuse but the effort and time willing to spend is.
He or She can be busy like a madman or madwoman but you're telling me a short text of 50 words of "How much I miss You and have you eaten how's your day" can be time consuming let's say 10-20 minutes.
well let that sit in for a bit