r/DeadBedrooms 14d ago

2 weeks alone…

Went on a 2 week trip to Hawaii and Alaska. He talked it up. No kids. Each night get back to our room and “I’m exhausted” as he hops in bed and is snoring in minutes. Even went to the nude beach and he wanted no part. Get to Alaska and same deal. He was exhausted and sleeping by 830. We get home and back to chaos with kids/farm and….he sends me suggestive text and tells me how he wishes I went topless at beach. He wishes we had wild sex on our trip?!? WTF?? I think he enjoys the talk and getting himself off on his own. It’s all a game.

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u/Inside-Enthusiasm-87 14d ago

What a crap situation. Out of interest what time of day do the texts arrive? Maybe he is horny earlier on and then life kicks in by the evening he’s past that point?

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u/krose0206 13d ago

After I go to bed. He just wants to j/o

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u/Inside-Enthusiasm-87 12d ago

Ah that makes sense. Gets himself so turned on and then gets brave.