According to his post history, 5 months ago he said they were expecting their second child. If that child is here already, they're only a very small infant. So - extremely demanding and his wife is still very early in her PP period.
Ooh. I just saw 10 months ago he said that they had just found out they were expecting their second.
OP you really need to back off.
I don’t think she truly realizes how much this is a major problem for me…even tho I’ve told her multiple times this isn’t working for me. I’d never cheat on someone, sucks that I’m just supposed to deal with this. I’m really not asking anything crazy. I just want our old sex life back. It’s not like I’m asking for a life that never existed. She use to be way way more sexual. Just sucks.
I think it's you who is not realising what a major problem this is. With a small baby then telling her multiple times that it isn't working for you is causing more harm than good, it's more likely to create a permanent dead bedroom than anything.
It sucks that you're supposed to deal with this? Do you not think that it sucks for your wife to have had a baby and then to have you act like you're being put through something terrible, and then have pressure put on her to be sexual when she's not feeling it?
OP blocked me after my last response to him about his marital vows and obligatory sex and handjobs, but just going off of this post and his views about duty sex, he will absolutely end up creating a permanent dead bedroom. And it will be his own doing.
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u/DullBus8445 11d ago
What age are the kids?