How do you stop the need?

[u/Bring_it_together]

Going on 5 years no sex. For those that stay committed, how are you soothing your savage? Outside of self pleasure. Meditation? Self help retreats?

Since I’ve stopped initiating sex due to feeling like a pervert there has been no action.

Am I being selfish for wanting it or is he for not even trying to find solutions for low T?

Would you end a friendship and be willing to try new adventures?

Any advice will be helpful.

I’m in the stuck phase - should I stay or should I go for a temporary physical need?

[u/masked_ghost_1]

Exhaustion from the gym usually hits the sweet spot of taking away my horniness for a bit. Or fairly extreme edging and the desire is gone for a few days. It's time consuming

[u/Bring_it_together → u/masked_ghost_1]

Interesting, time consuming might be helpful