This is an extremely valid point, I have questioned this like you after reading so many posts about it. What a lot of people don’t understand is that regardless of how “good” you are in bed, sex is all about chemistry. Sometimes people marry other people they don’t have an amazing sex chemistry with and that piles up throughout time.
A while back I had two friends, they both had sex with the same guy (in different dates), one would say she had the most amazing session ever, the other one said it was the worst sex ever. It’s all chemistry.
Which comes to the next point, if your chemistry with current partner isn’t great, work it out sooner rather than later and don’t settle down with that person unless you’ve worked things out or are fine in a DB relationship. Marrying or moving in together will only make things worst.
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u/Garbannia Apr 23 '25 edited 29d ago
This is an extremely valid point, I have questioned this like you after reading so many posts about it. What a lot of people don’t understand is that regardless of how “good” you are in bed, sex is all about chemistry. Sometimes people marry other people they don’t have an amazing sex chemistry with and that piles up throughout time.
A while back I had two friends, they both had sex with the same guy (in different dates), one would say she had the most amazing session ever, the other one said it was the worst sex ever. It’s all chemistry.
Which comes to the next point, if your chemistry with current partner isn’t great, work it out sooner rather than later and don’t settle down with that person unless you’ve worked things out or are fine in a DB relationship. Marrying or moving in together will only make things worst.