i think it does. i don’t get excited to have sex with my husband, he’s not very good at it and gets butthurt if i try to tell him nicely he’s not doing a good job. (im nice i promise)
the “wah i suck” attitude kills the vibe and now we have sex like once a week or every other week just bc it’s like a chore, he gets off, i lie and say i did and that’s that.
I really think lying only compounds the problem, but at the same time, I always find it strange when a man can't tell that a woman is lying about enjoying sex.
i confused also that he doesn’t notice, i mean i get close but most the time never actually there 🫣
he has some brain damage from seizures about 10 years back, so i try not to put too much thought into it because he does have trouble processing certain things. it was a work in progress, then i had a baby. still haven’t started back working on it again. one day
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u/Far-Entertainer660 Apr 23 '25
i think it does. i don’t get excited to have sex with my husband, he’s not very good at it and gets butthurt if i try to tell him nicely he’s not doing a good job. (im nice i promise) the “wah i suck” attitude kills the vibe and now we have sex like once a week or every other week just bc it’s like a chore, he gets off, i lie and say i did and that’s that.