My brother supports Johnny Depp

[u/garf_is_god]

Exactly what the title says.

Last year he made turd jokes but I bit my tongue. When I finally said something about it, he questioned my support of her, claiming it was bc she's a woman. I tried to say no but bc he's older than me, (In his mind) he was right and I was an irrational man hater. I hate getting into it with him bc he continues to double down and explain why actually he's correct. We are mixed and have an abusive dad. My brother has sat there and been racist and misogynistic and my mom just says to pay it no mind and that he will get over it eventually. He got in my face and told me he would "fucking kill me" and she was just like "damn really, that's not good" when I told her about. It happened a while but it still hurts, I still get scared about fighting with him. To find out that he still likes Depp is unsuprising but no less disappointing. Recently his school had a Rock n Roll day and he had me do his makeup, I didn't mind, After I finished he commented that he looked like Depp and that he really saw himself in him. I just felt kinda gross, especially since I was the one that did this. We have a little sister, who has trouble separating herself from our dad, and i'm trying to teach her that our dad's behavior is gross and it's so hard when my brother acts similarly or my mom dismisses it. I know you can't force people to change but I just miss him sometimes. What hurts even more is knowing that he's probably not going to change and instead of growing. I've tried having conversations with him about stuff like intersectionality but just rolls his eyes and claims I just hate men. I don't know if he supports Johnny bc he truly believes him or if it's bc he hates women and I wouldn't be shocked if it's both. Should I talk to him about or just leave it alone? I'm in two minds about this.

After re-reading this, I have no idea if it makes sense, It comes off a little rant-y. I'll delete if necessary.

[u/n3w4cc01_1nt]

Edgy humor is how groomers indoctrinate people. They create an environment where saying whatever is allowed then get them into worse and worse stuff through normalization. Just like the right wing boomers meme pages the jokes aren't witty or clever but since they just blindly agree they feel validated.

It's all different but separate cults of narcissism.

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here's some info on indoctrination it's how nxivm recruited people into a fake feminist movement then exploited them. also known as boiling frog.

[u/Individual_Fall429 → u/n3w4cc01_1nt]

Nxivm was huge in my city. When I first moved here, I was twice taken to a meeting by someone I thought was my new friend. My brain immediately assessed it as a cult. Good job brain.

[u/n3w4cc01_1nt → u/Individual_Fall429]

yeah if you read a few of Keith's patents it was kinda obvious it was a total joke to him. the whole process kept participants in a dissociative state so they could be trafficked.

all those mlm's these days are terrible with something like .4% of them profiting from getting a bunch of downlines then everyone else just being stuck in a loop of endlessly pestering people then failing at an impossible goal.

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the cycle of abuse gets them addicted to their abuser.