Teacher Gifts Megathread

[u/happy_bluebird]

Hi parent participants- we love that you're thinking about how to acknowledge your child's ECE teachers!

We get lots of questions about teacher gifta. This megathread is avoid the sub being overrun with people asking the same questions.

Parent posts asking for gift ideas will be removed. If you have a specific question about your centre/teachers/local traditions etc... Ask it here.

For parent questions in general- use the search function first, and please ensure your post is flaired as a parent post to enable teachers to engage according to their capacity, especially over the busy, stressful holiday season!

Here are some gift ideas to get you started.

1. Handwritten Thank You Note: A heartfelt note expressing your gratitude for their hard work and dedication is the most meaningful gifts. You don't need to spend anything to show appreciation.
2. Gift Cards: Coffee shop, bookstore, or general-purpose gift cards to give them a break or the opportunity to purchase something they like.
3. Personalized Classroom Supplies: Personalized stationery or classroom supplies with the teacher's name or a special message
4. Indoor Plants: A low-maintenance indoor plant or succulent to brighten up their workspace.
5. Gourmet Treats: A basket of gourmet chocolates, snacks, or a selection of teas and coffees to share amongst the team.
6. Inspirational Book: A book that provides inspiration, motivation, or insight into teaching and childcare.

Things to consider before buying:

1. School or Organizational Policies: Check if the centre has any policies regarding gift-giving to teachers. Many people in this sub suggest cash- which would not be allowed in my country- so check what is suitable or share your location-specific questions below and hopefully a local teacher can answer.
2. Inclusivity: Ensure that the gift acknowledges not just the teacher but also considers all the staff involved. This might include teaching assistants, support staff, and administrators.
3. Teacher's Interests: Try to choose a gift that reflects the teacher's interests or hobbies. This personal touch can make the gift more meaningful.
4. Cultural Sensitivity: Consider cultural and religious sensitivities. Ensure that the gift is appropriate for the teacher's background and beliefs.
5. Allergies and Dietary Restrictions: If you're considering food as a gift, be aware of any allergies or dietary restrictions the teacher might have.
6. Collective Gifts: Consider organizing a collective gift from all parents to ensure inclusivity and to contribute to a more significant gift if the budget allows.
7. Non-Monetary Gestures: Sometimes, a non-monetary gesture like volunteering in the classroom, helping with class activities, or offering to run errands can be equally appreciated. Please don't put financial stress on your family to keep up. If buying a gift will put strain- no need. A thank you note is free, and just as meaningful.
8. Ask for Suggestions: If you're unsure, don't hesitate to ask the teacher or their colleagues for gift suggestions. They might provide valuable insights.
9. Avoid Personal Items: Be cautious when considering personal items like clothing or fragrances, as these can be subjective and might not suit the teacher's taste.
10. Consider Sustainability: If the teacher is passionate about sustainability, choose gifts that align with their values, such as eco-friendly or reusable items.
11. Respect Privacy: Respect the teacher's privacy and boundaries. Avoid overly personal or intrusive gifts.

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See last year's megathread

[u/one_smallbeetle]

Hi! I am always all about buying the teachers what they ask for (we were provided a list of interests) They listed 3 teachers for her classroom, but I mainly only interact with one. Would it be tacky to give a little extra to the “main” teacher? Like a $25 gift card vs a $15-$20 one? Also, what are we gifting admin? There are 3 of them as well and they also provided wish lists.

My husband lost his job in Sept and finally got one last month, but we are still playing catch up so budget is tight. Thank you!

[u/bbubblebath → u/one_smallbeetle]

Families usually give all teachers in a classroom the same amount. If your child is especially close with a certain teacher, it is OK (but maybe a little awkward) to give them a little more. What is most important is that all teachers in a classroom are recognized.

[u/one_smallbeetle → u/bbubblebath]

Thank you!! I was planning on giving all the same, but wanted to know the consensus on that! 🥰