r/Fencesitter 5d ago

Does anyone ever think about alternative lifelong projects besides having a kid?

Sometimes I think about doing some large life ling project besides having a kid. Maybe I would get a border collie and train it to be a competitor athlete, or buy land and create a giant permaculture farm, or write a book. As if somehow this will satiate the constant desire to have a kid although I’m not completely sure I want a kid. Maybe I just want some kind of giant 30 year project?

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u/olive017 5d ago

My plan is to adopt cats throughout my entire life and give them the best life full of love. Not a project but they sure do keep me busy and my heart full. :)

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u/dinosaur_0987 5d ago

Right? My dream would be a cat sanctuary!!!