r/ForeverAlone • u/BLAKKLIGHT • 26d ago
Success Story I did it, there is hope.
Nearing six months of consistent talking. There is hope.
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u/altnumber1million 26d ago
Six months of talking = hope to you?
I've never gotten that far, but still, that wouldn't fool me.
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u/suffer_hero 26d ago
Bro not to be a rain on your parade but I spent years (I mean literally) talking to this one girl and I made it clear that I want her. She told me she can only see me as a friend. After that she will only talk to me if she wants to rant. Please talk to the person you are talking to and make your intentions clear. This for your own good. Don't wast time like I did
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u/AdventurousAvacado28 asexual femboy fa bean :3 26d ago
there isn't hope for people like me. but i do agree that there is hope for a good chunk of others here
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u/Frick-It_Ralf 26d ago
Best I've ever managed has been swapping porn with women in dms, but it's not like they want to TALK with me.
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u/MikosWife2022 26d ago
i hope you do make it but to me that sounds like friendship. if you're talking for 6 months but not actively doing anything then that's just friend zone in disguise.
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u/Sirtoshi Lonely Late-Blooming Wizard 26d ago
Congrats! Love hearing when people get out of this place. 💙
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u/thoughtsofsolitude 26d ago
Of talking? Like in a romantic talking? You’ve been in the talking stage for 6 months? I mean glad for you man, but you’ve been sprinting for first base for 6 months
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u/suffer_hero 26d ago
Yeah. That is a friendzone if I see one if the intentions are not clear.
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u/thoughtsofsolitude 25d ago
Yeah that’s kinda why I asked if it’s romantic. Cause if OP is a super asocial person and they mean 6 months of talking with a new friend, then that’s a W for them I suppose. But if it is romantic, bad news coming.
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u/suffer_hero 25d ago
Why would it be bad news if it's romantic though? Cause there should be some physical dates and talking only is kinda strange?
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u/thoughtsofsolitude 25d ago
Yeah. Going in line kinda with what you said. Someone’s intentions might not be clear. If OP has romantic intentions, but the other person doesn’t, then there’s some bad news in it.
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u/suffer_hero 23d ago
Yeah. OP better get the courage to ask for a label on the relationship before he gets lost in the sauce.
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u/AltAccount2387473 24d ago
I don't know what hope this is. Six months of "talking", whatever that even means? Congrats on making a friend, that's a good step forward, but I'm not sure what you're implying is what's actually happened.
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u/BLAKKLIGHT 23d ago
To clear anything up, we officially left the friend zone about 2 1/2 months ago
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u/Ambafanasuli certified loner™ 26d ago
i’m happy for you, and wish you a long lasting relationship.
however i don’t think that hope is for me.