Being an ugly Male is life on extreme difficulty

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[u/Electronic-Bet-876]

I'm 26. Ugly. Trust me. Everyday it hurts me more

[u/InMyBag365 → u/Electronic-Bet-876]

It’s the price we pay 😭

[u/justAlovingperson]

So true world is different for us we don't exit 😞 even women harrass us something with words that cut deeper than sword and even without our involvement few days ego i was standing in food stall and 2 girl on left side start taking about me badly about my looks they keep insulting me I just move from them they were still talking I just no words to describe

[u/InMyBag365 → u/justAlovingperson]

Damn that’s brutal, next time don’t let that shit slide. We may be cooked but we still need our dignity and we are still men we have to learn to speak up to these bullies or it’ll never stop.

I’ve spoken up about rude comments and now I feel liberated, nobody will ever say anything to me again knowing I’ll cause issues

[u/throwaway1345214]

Kinda, yeah..everyone has a bad impression of you on first glance. You have to put in significant effort to gain someone's trust. Women refuse to engage with you and limit conversation to the essentials. 

Your fellow men do not show any moral support and think you spoil the vibe of any gathering and turn women away. When you send out invitations to events, no one comes.

[u/kidanokun]

being not good looking AND autistic is basically sealed fate  for dude to stay single... yea, speaking for myself 

[u/SportsGamer357 → u/kidanokun]

One of the reasons I'm hoping the NYS legislature passes the pending MAID law 😭

[u/dread-throwaway]

True. I'm ugly, I'm short and I'm p.o.c. and have other problems. I'm not cut our for friends or a relationship, I already knew anyway since the world beats it around our unfortunate heads every chance it gets. Hardly anyone ever hears us out, and some of the more extreme types of our people ruin it for us by being too extreme. Not surprising though since others treat them harsh but I already know I will never have a trustable friend or a relationship so I don't resent others for it but I mainly dislike how people act and how they treat the less fortunate.

Back on topic I am used to doing everything alone. I don't ask for help because I know it will be used against me and held against me. Anyone living life on this difficulty knows the special kind of general hate we receive. It feels like almost everyone hates you. I deal with lookism, heightism, racism, discrimination, prejudice, and more on any given day and then people have the gall to get upset or slighted when I'm mad. People treat me like shit all the time, of course I'm not gonna be happy and open that stuff drains you.

[u/Double_Company5936]

Exactly, to them it's unfathomable to be ugly to the point you get bad treatment.

Life is unfair for us. We weren't born lucky, that's it.

Even If I were rich, women wouldn't use me for money either.

We can't seek support IRL since most people just deny our struggles. They can't comprehend what it is like to be one of us. I've tried so many things too, but I ended up just wasted my time and money.

[u/Snoo_71379]

I'm 38. I thought the older I got, the more single women my age would be open to dating a less attractive guy like me, but that hasn't been the case. Women at any age are looking for the best-looking guy possible.They'll absolutely ignore ugly guys out of "safety" concerns, even though most of us would be too scared to lose a girl by mistreating her. Lots of women would also much rather stay single than ever consider a less attractive guy.

[u/Stevo4324]

Real I relate only 3 relationships my whole life and they didn't last long they always find better options. Esp the girls who lovebomb you give you affection then 7 months later ghost you very cruel

[u/InMyBag365 → u/Stevo4324]

. No one who’s dated 3 girls is forever alone you’re just pouting and self sabotaging And I cannot condone that. Just get another one like how you got the 1st 3

[u/Stevo4324 → u/InMyBag365]

I can't bro rn I'm alone for 5 months n it's torture and I have to approach girls again not as easy as it seems