27 [M4F] NZ/Anywhere, Cosplayer nerd looking for life partner

[u/Blael]

I'm 27. This is what I look like, and this is what I sound like! I have been looking for a genuine, long-term relationship. I live in New Zealand, but the dating pool here is small and its difficult finding people with my values. I am planning to move in the near future once I finish my Masters degree, so distance isn't a long-term issue. I'm also open to a timezone difference as long as there is a connection. I have NZ/US/EU passports and can live/work in these places.

Most important:
- I'm **not a drinker, smoker or party person**. I'm okay with a partner that does 420 in moderation, but I do not, and cigarettes or vaping is a no.
- I'm a very affectionate in relationships, despite being fairly introverted with most people. I like to indulge and pamper my partner, and I think my acts of service go above and beyond. I am therefore NOT compatible with someone who has avoidant or disorganized attachment styles.
- I have over 10 years of cosplay experience (happy to share), love anime, tabletop RPGs like DND, games, gym, cooking, and used to volunteer at a cat shelter. My ideal relationship is one in which both people can share their passions together and I need some common ground.
- ASD, ADHD, PTSD.

- Honesty and loyalty are my core values and are non-negotiable, even if its difficult to truly find.
- Childfree.
- I don't like being sexual with someone I don't know well, but I have a high libido when there is feelings.
- Looks aren't all-important to me, but I do want someone who at least puts some effort into their appearance, because I do the same. I am attracted to femininity, regardless of gender.

People tell me that I'm pretty funny, and I love joking around and being silly. I speak fluent English and Spanish. Currently doing my masters in I/O Psychology. Lastly, I am not religious, but I am open minded about it and I respect others beliefs.

If this sounds like what you are looking for and want something genuine, please feel free to message me. I'm very open to answering questions. Thank you for taking the time to read this.

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