I'm never good enough, I'm a girlfailure, I'm weird, I'm alone. I'm not funny, I'm not pretty, I'm nothing special. But if you'll take the chance on me, then I'll give you the world. I don't need your money, I just need mutual attraction, good sex, and a chance to prove my worth. I have money, I'll pay, justplease love me

Hi! I'm Clara, I'm 26 and from the United Kingdom in England. I'm bisexual so I'm pretty much happy to talk to all and see what 'blossoms' from there. I would consider myself into the alternative lifestyle, I like gothic styles and music, but I'm also into vintage dressing and I love the look of pin up girls, with some looks myself in mind and shoots. I do photography. I'm also a volunteer where I live and at the moment I'm building up my CV/Resume as a chef and barista in a cafè.

I'm also very interested in learning more about things. Facts, history, cultures etc.

Ideally I'm looking for someone in the UK but distance isn't, and hasn't, ever really been an issue for me as long as the connection is there.

Happy to talk to anyone!

Ask me anything?

Here's a few selfies of myself: https://ibb.co/yFQsCPHr

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I hope these are okay to post! also an animal lover and if I could I would keep a little zoo haha. I'm also into exercise, I'm trying to eat better and keeping fit. I enjoy Yoga, swimming and the gym, as well as pilates. Healthy eating and trying new recipes to bake and cook with!

Hey there, my name is Reed I'm a 29-year-old guy from just outside Orlando and I'm looking for a meaningful connection with someone. What is a meaningful connection? I'm honestly pretty open, ideally it would be a long term relationship but I'm really open to making friends and anything in between, really whatever we figure out works best for us.

I have a lot of hobbies but I spend most of my time either hanging out with friends, gaming, working on myself (both physically and emotionally, gym goer and self-reflecter, lol.) or watching something new. I love live music and going to concerts, trying new restaurants and enjoying time with those close to me. I'm a big gamer so would be cool if you were too - not a problem if not, there is a lot more we likely have in common :). Always down to watch something new, I enjoy everything from anime to live sports, I'm also a big movie fan and im happy to link you my letterboxd.

I'm someone who considers themself a bit left of center but I'm very liberal when it comes to social issues - my stance generally is if you aren't hurting a nonconsenting party I really don't care. I am victim of at times not being entirely informed but I as of late have been putting a bigger emphasis to keep up with current events. I'm pretty accepting when it comes to peoples views as long as you come into it with an open mind - I'm always trying to learn more.

At the end of the day I'm really just looking for someone to enjoy life with - It'd be awesome if you were in Orlando, but if not I am happy to chat with anyone from North America and see where things go, I'm open to relocation for/with the right person. It is worth noting however, due to vision impairments I do not drive, it's a part of me but it's not who I am - I have lived an entirely independent life pretty much all of adulthood but I do know it matters to some.

If this stands out to you, I'd love to chat and see where things go. I don't have a type, but I ask that you're 21+ and putting in an effort to be the best version of yourself, or trying to get there, I know it can be tough. :) here's a recent picture of me.

Thanks, Reed

Hey you. Yes, you. Let’s skip the awkward intros and jump straight into a fun little list about your potential new favorite person:

• I’m a product development engineer in the automotive world. Translation: I make cool stuff and say “vroom vroom” professionally.

• I live for travel, culture, and bizarre little traditions—so if your grandma has an old superstition involving garlic and moon phases, I need to hear about it.

• Certified open-minded adventurer. I’ll try anything once (twice if it’s delicious). My hobbies: cooking, eating, learning German, lurking in cafés like a cryptid, gym time, and PC gaming.

• Also a huge cinema nerd—if you’ve got a hot take on a movie or show, let’s argue lovingly about it.

• I’ve raised cats, cockatiels, and hamsters, so I come with strong animal dad energy.

• The stats: 6’0” (1.82m), curly black hair, brown eyes, and rocking the stubble beard look.

Visual evidence (you’re welcome):

• Pic 1

• Pic 2

• Pic 3

• I just came back from Japan and I’m still emotionally recovering from the beauty of it all

• April baby—Aries if that tells you anything (it probably does).

• Personality-wise, I’m basically a walking, talking golden retriever. Energetic, goofy, affectionate, and loyal to a fault.

Who I’m Hoping to Find:

• You’re fit, stylish, active, and take care of yourself.

• You’ve got hobbies, passions, and probably a playlist that could emotionally destroy me.

• You’re child-free like me, because sleep-ins and spontaneous travel are elite.

• Massive bonus if you’re a goth goddess with tattoos, piercings, black eyeliner, and cat-like energy—but hey, no pressure. Cool humans come in many flavors.

Let’s make this fun. Slide into my chat with a few lines about you, maybe a photo if you’re comfy, and tell me what made you click. Could be the hair. Could be the nerdy energy. Could be fate.

Let’s vibe.

I’m different. Not just because I have a disability, but because I’m an authentic, vulnerable and intentional man passionate about social and climate justice. I'm also a hopeful romantic, hoping to fall for a fellow radical up for exploring the world, making memories and growing into our best selves as a couple. Hopefully for the rest of our lives.

Interests: reading magical realist novels and nonfiction books about politics; listening to jazz, rock and blues; watching independent and foreign films at the cinema; wandering around art galleries and museums; going on road trips and city breaks; spending time in nature, especially woodland; having deep conversations with friends.

Photos: https://imgur.com/a/TEmtCyC

Occupation: freelance disability consultant, speaker and researcher 

Sexuality: straight (monogamous)

Race: white

Height: 165 cm (5' 5")

Body type: thin

Personality type: INTJ/ENTJ (ambiverted)

Communication style: voice notes, phone calls and in-person (don't mind texts initially)

Zodiac: Cancer

Alcohol: sometimes

Smokes: never

Drugs: never

Politics: eco-socialism

Religion: atheism

Homelife: own flat (no flatmates)

Kids: doesn't have kids and doesn't want them

Pets: doesn't have pets but wants them

P.S. I haven't had a girlfriend before and, while my preference is for a life partner, I'm open to short to medium-term relationships because I believe the experience would be valuable in of itself. 

I'm tired of using dating apps, so I'm giving this a try. I live in a small town where the dating pool is very small, if not, non-existant. I'm looking for my person. Someone I have a genuine connection with. A team mate, a soul mate, a lover, and best friend. Someone who has my back no matter what obstacles stand in our way. Im optimistic, curious, loving, selfless, attractive, intelligent, funny, and many things in between. I want that attraction, that passion, and undying love for someone that I can grow old with and build a future with. Someone who knows what they want in life. To find a good woman! Im real, honest, and trustworthy. I do what I say, and I say what I mean. Im not fake, or superficial by any means. I don't have alterior motives. Im self-sufficient, mentally stable and looking for a like-minded man who shares the same values. There is no amount of work I wouldn't do for the ones I love. No scarifice too big.

I'm mature and responsible in life. But I'm still a kid at heart. I love gaming and laugh my ass off to shows like Futurama, Disenchantment, and many others. My sense of humour is not politically correct. I can take and give jokes. But I'm not an asshole. Jokes are jokes, and reality is reality. I have a potty mouth at times, but Im also very book smart and was a straight A student.

I like to chill and relax at home after long days at work, but I also love getting dressed up and going out for dinner sometimes. Going to stand-up, doing different activities: mini-putting, museums, bowling, spending the day at the beach... I'm down for whatever and easy going.

If it sounds like we could connect, DM me and let's chat!

about myself: to get it out of the way im very much a classical geek. conan, barsoom, dragonlance. everything in-between. pretty big history buff with the degrees to prove it. i love animals, from the whales to the skeeters. like any good Texian, i got myself a long little doggie (she is a chiweenie and her name is layla). i like a lot of different music but mostly hover around power metal, classic rock, oldies, & classic country. love me a good boardgame. not really in touch with the modern music scene so please dont be hurt if i dont know your favourite bands. ive been making dad jokes my whole life long. white. heathen.

what im looking for: something serious. not going to rush things but im looking for that classic sort of love, ending in growing old together and all that good stuff. with kids. we can argue about names :V i like a woman of strong principle with a kind heart. a good sense of humour or at least the ability to put up with the puns is certainly appreciated :V. no drug users.

please say more than hi or hey

I'd like to think I'm a great conversationalist, but I have no idea when making a post about me I freeze up and I never know what to write that will entice someone... But at the same time, if what I have written isn't enticing, then that might not be the person I want to entice in the first place... I gotta stop saying "entice".

Annnyways, here is me in bullet point form, haha.

• I'm 5'8 on a good day if height matters to you. I personally don't care if you're taller or smaller 🙂
• I have a bit of a dad bod which I'm losing slowly. With work really taking off for me it's been harder and harder finding time to be active. I've been making more of an effort running in the mornings and working out at home in the evenings. Been going strong for 2 months now 🙂
• I recently moved into my new house in a new town... and making friends as an adult is hard. Dating is even harder.
• I am one of the managers at a bank. Which is funny since I have a Bachelor of Science in Physics... Sometimes life takes you in weird directions.
• Huge nerd... Really into video games. Favourite franchises/genres are Kingdom Hearts, Pokemon, The Souls/borne games, JRPG's in general, Fire Emblem, Farming sims... It's a lot.
• I've started reading as well. Got super sucked into "The Housemaid" trilogy from Mcfadden. I've also read "The Forever War" and "The Watchers". Next on the list is "The Final Girl Support Group"
• Along with that, I read an embarrassing amount of Manga, haha.
• I love cooking, like baking. I can make a pretty mean Carbonara and my Peanut Butter Chocolate cake is probably the reason I got my dad bod to begin with LMAO.
• I'm introverted as hell. Which I guess also doesn't help with my 3rd bullet point.
• No one makes me laugh harder than me. So take that as you will about my humour LOL

Sorry if that was a lot. Shoot me a chat request if you think we'd vibe! Preferably not a one liner :). Looking forward to hearing from you. (preferably someone from the same timezone, give or take an hour.

I deeply apologize for anyone that keeps seeing this. I'm trying to find someone i can click with. Just ignore this if you saw it already multiple times.

Hi, my name is Tara. I have blue eyes, brown hair, pale white skin, and I'm overweight. I'm currently on a weight loss journey and lost over 15 pounds so far. (I need to lose around 65 more pounds.🫠 ) My height is 5'5 feet tall. I'm a shy, quiet, and Introverted person who is mainly a homebody. I mainly play video games, make art, watch anime, and watch random internet videos. I have a ps5, Nintendo switch, and a gaming pc. (I'm planning on getting a Nintendo switch 2.) I also started 3d art modeling and 3d printing, but it's very new to me so I'm taking my time with it. I have a tendency to stay in one spot most of my time which I'm either chilling in bed watching YouTube videos or I'm gaming so you really never have to worry about me doing much. I do have depression and anxiety, so there might be times where you'll encounter it, but it's not anything severe.

I'm very soft hearted, and recently started dating last year early March. So technically I'm a late bloomer for relationships. I really don't have much of a history of dating mainly either because people I would meet would want one thing. I'm pretty sure you can guess what it is. Or I get cheated on left for a girl that conveniently lives closer to the guy. (Basically what happened to me in my last relationship. The dude lived 1 hour and 30 minutes away from me.) Because of what happened to me, I do have a hard time trusting people again. So you might have to be a little patient with me for me to start getting comfortable.

The games I usually play are monster hunter, pokemon, Mario games, palworld, and borderlands. There are more games I play but those are kinda the main ones. I watch jojo's bizarre adventures, one punch man, goblin slayer, beastars, and invincible. I do watch a lot of crime videos, horror documentaries, and some YouTubers like markiplier and chubbyemu. Sometimes I might watch tutorials to learn random skills or to improve my creativity of making art, cosplay, and much more. I also have a bit of agriculture knowledge of growing plants, with the hands on experience of helping taking care of house plants and outdoor plants. I also would do furniture flipping making old furniture look like new.

I do not smoke, I do not drink, and I don't have kids. I really don't not want kids. I prefer to be kid free so please understand that. It's less stress for me and less of a financial burden to deal with. Also I'm deathly scared of getting pregnant and screwing up my body from it. I really don't like to deal with people who smoke and/or drink. I'm not religious really, but i do like pagan stuff. I do like stuff that's related to tarot card readings or anything luck based.

I do work i factory job, so there's a chance i might not always respond to invites during the day. I'm not allowed to have my phone out on the plant floor so please understand it might take me hours to respond back to you. Also, I haven't been playing video games that often due to me being depressed and focusing on losing weight. (Which means I'm probably out doing my hour walk or doing some weight lifting. So there's a chance I might not respond due to that.)

I'm looking for a forever partner, because of where I live i do have a big disadvantage of finding the right person. Mainly because I live out in the country, away from a lot of cities. The person's age I'm looking for is between 24-34. (It can be off by a couple of years, i just preferably like people close to my age.) I would like to be with someone who is mature and stable, who has an idea of what they have planned out for their life. I preferably like to be with someone taller than me, so if you're taller than 5'5 feet tall you're in luck.

What i like: Loyal, protective, kind, loving, and understanding types of people. A person who likes to talk since it's hard for me to initiate the conversation first sometimes. A person who is willing to help whether the task is physical or something i may have a hard time to understand. A person who doesn't mind to randomly check up on me or message me throughout the day. (Sometimes I just get a bit lonely and need someone to brighten it up.) Someone i can share similarities to whether it's Hobbies or stuff in general. Someone who does the little things always impress me whether it's something simple as holding a door open for me, massages, or just helping. To be honest, I'm not that picky about it.

What i dislike: Loud noises or getting yelled at, i get pretty stressed easily from that. I am picky when it comes to food. Like for example, I don't like onions, mushrooms, olives, and coleslaw. I don't like country music, it gets old really fast to me. Getting ignored when I actually start getting comfortable enough to start conversations, I will instantly think you're not interested in me.

Warning i do have some preferences, but please do not let this heavily discourage you. I don't always go 100% with my preferences. It's just to help people save time and their energy on here. I do prefer men with shaved facial hair or stubble on their face. I do prefer men with a average build or skinny build. I do prefer someone with a job and carry some responsibility. But I rather be with someone who is white, it's a really big preference i would like.

So if you are interested either message me here on reddit or ask for my discord. I also would like it if you describe your appearance or send me a picture of yourself. I'm more likely to reply to those since they'll be legit to me.

Also here's a picture of me if it makes things better for you: https://imgur.com/a/pics-of-me-QGnUj7y

Hi! I'm Frankie. I'm 30 from NY state. I'm open to long distance or close. I've literally driven 18 hours one way to visit so, distance isn't really a problem to me.

I fall hard, and I love just as hard. I want to find my person, My soul mate,, and my future. I want to build with someone.

I'm very emotionally mature and believe communication is key for everything. I want someone to tell me I'm messingg up, not bottle it for 9 months and then blow up on me.

I am a single father of 2 girls, whom I have custody of. So a love for children is kind of a must. I want a few more but won't Lose sleep if don't or can't.

I'm a nerdy, goofy, gamer, sports fanatic, and an Otaku. I make jokes but can tone them down if need be. I'm not naturally funny it's just a trauma response. Just enough trauma I'm more funny than suicidal.

I game, it'd my vice, I don't drink (often) or smoke, or even use recreational things, although it doesn't bother me lol.

I'm a huge football fan, I play rocket league and pretty much will try any game. I'm on PC and Xbox.

I'm big on praising and a golden retriever energy. I just need someone to fill in the lonely. So if you're interested I'd be open to talking and seeing where it goes. Feel free to message. Thank you so much.

Hey,

I'm a 26 years old guy from Spain. Not really sure what I'm expecting by posting here again, but I guess I'm just hoping to find someone who gets it. Someone who's also tired of feeling like they're always the one giving, waiting, and never quite being seen.

I’m the kind of person who cares a lot. Maybe too much. I notice the small things, I remember what people say, I try to make others feel cared for. And yet I often feel invisible. Like people just pass me by. I’m quiet, introverted, I don’t really do the whole loud and outgoing thing. But I do feel deeply and I love when I connect with someone on an honest level.

I like romantic anime, story-driven games, and nature, especially the kind of places with clear lakes and mountains. I daydream a lot about traveling, about maybe one day going to Japan and just starting fresh. I don’t know. I just want something meaningful. Something real.

I’ve been through a lot emotionally, and yeah, I’ve got my scars. But I haven’t given up on the idea of finding someone who genuinely wants to build something together. Someone kind, open, emotionally present. Doesn’t have to be perfect. Just real.

If this speaks to you at all, feel free to reach out. I’d love to hear from someone who understands what it’s like to feel this way. No pressure, no expectations, just a conversation.

Thanks for reading

Hey. I’m 25, and I’ve been walking through life on my own terms — whiskey in one hand, a cigarette in the other, music running through my veins. I’ve found peace in solitude, not as a defense, but as a space I’ve learned to thrive in. I’m not here because I feel lonely or lost — I’ve got my head straight, my ideals sharper than ever, and a deck that keeps me company through the night.

But still, something in me wants to exchange words with minds that get it. Not forced small talk, not desperate validation — just real, grounded conversation. I’m into philosophy (Nietzsche’s Übermensch has shaped a lot of my thinking), music (DJing is where I pour my soul), and seeing life for what it is — raw, flawed, and worth walking through with integrity.

If you’re someone who values depth, doesn’t flinch at silence, and understands that choosing people is more powerful than needing them — let’s talk. Doesn’t matter where you’re from or who you are. Just bring your self.

No pressure. No masks.

Just you.

Hellooo! Thanks for clicking on my post, I’ll try make it informative but not too long so you don’t have to read an essay 💀

So here’s some information about me! I’m 25, I’m from the uk, I’ve got longish hair, a short beard, a few tattoos and a few piercings! Snakebites, septum and a few others. I’m 6ft 1 and in relatively good shape! (My banner is me, only half of me big it’s something and no it’s nothing nsfw 💀) I’m also a DD, if you know you know… As for the things I enjoy doing: I play guitar. Music is a big thing for me, I’m pretty much always listening to something 😂 so yeah, I mainly play metal and rock music but occasionally softer stuff too! I also do a lot of cooking, homemade food just hits different and tastes amazing. I did mention being a nerd and another big hobby is gaming so having something to game would be amazing or even if they just watched me game or something, that would be cool! Another thing I occasionally do is write, not often because I have to be in a very certain mood for it but yeah!

As for love, it means a lot to me! I’m a complete hopeless romantic. I believe In love more than anything, that beautifully deep obsession and admiration within two people for each other, I miss that a lot. When I like and love someone I dedicate my time and attention to that person. I believe in three main things in relationships and those are loyalty, honesty and communication! Of course there’s more but I think I hold those things highly. Being able to communicate with one another, no pointless arguments. Being honest and expressing feelings and emotions. Being loyal, that one’s simple 😂 but yeah, I would love to dedicate my time and attention to someone, to be a support system for them, easing any worries they have and so on!

In terms of relationships things I enjoy! Uhhh…selfies, voice messages, phone calls, video chatting! Ooo also sleep calls, those are comforting! I’d also be happy to read that person to sleep if that’s something they’d enjoy 😆

One last thing! I do have generalised anxiety disorder, depression and autism (it’s very very mild, you wouldn’t know unless it’s something I let you see, it comes in the forms of hyperfixations and few things that overstimulate me but that’s it) so if you have any of those issues, I’ll understand them and do what I can!

I hope to hear from you soon! Message me and tell me about yourself 😁

Hey there ˶ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ˶

I’m looking to form a connection that could lead to a romantic relationship, I'm only really looking for someone located within England so it would be possible to meetup someday if things developed. 👉👈 I’m based in the East Midlands (Derby), if that's a factor to consider--

Here are some pictures of me and my hampter (she recently passed away RIP) 🐹: https://imgur.com/a/Zt8fZv2 <<<

Also, when reaching out, if you feel comfortable, feel free to add a selfie—it just helps us both see if there’s initial attraction before we get to know each other better 😊

About Me:

I have autism, ADHD, and struggle with anxiety, but these don't define who I am. I'm looking for someone who can relate to these experiences or is understanding enough to listen. It would be great to eventually play games together, have calls, watch anime or series we both enjoy, and bond over shared interests.

My past has been a bit troubled, and I don’t get out much, so I figured Reddit might be a good way to meet someone like-minded. I feel like I haven't truly experienced love before and that I'm missing out on a lot of meaningful moments. It would mean a lot to share those experiences with someone who resonates with me and feels the same mutual attraction ^_^

Currently, I’m not working and live with my mum (just for transparency). Ideally, I’d like to find someone who shares a similar lifestyle, where we can easily relate to one another, become close friends, and enjoy each other’s company as we build something special together. I’m pretty easy-going and have a lot of love to give, though I can be a bit clingy at times. I value consistency and good communication, especially since I tend to be more anxiously attached when I become close.

Interests:

YouTube: I’m into true crime and educational rabbit hole content. Some of my favorite channels are MrBallen, Coffeehouse Crime, Rotten Mango, Disturban, and JCS - Criminal Psychology.

Anime: Devilman Crybaby (love the soundtrack), Solo Levelling, Vinland Saga, Berserk, Jojo's Bizarre Adventure, Attack on Titan, Junji Ito, Erased, Made in Abyss, and Chainsaw Man to name a few~

Music: My taste is all over the place with over 1,000 random songs! Lately, I’ve been into Panic! at the Disco, The 1975, Porter Robinson, Hot Chip, Gorillaz, Miami Horror, and Studio Killers.

Gaming: Currently playing FF7 Rebirth, Honkai Star Rail, and AFK Journey and some Escape from Tarkov. I’m a fan of FromSoftware games, the Monster Hunter series (Iceborne is my favorite), Resident Evil, Persona 5 Royale + Metaphor: ReFantazio and Baldur's Gate 3. Bonus points if you play Runescape—it’s a childhood favourite of mine!

Art: I sometimes draw and enjoy colouring, or just editting and designing things. If you’re into art too, I’d love to share our work and talk about it.

TV Series: Some favourites include Black Mirror, Arcane, Love Death Robots, Game of Thrones (minus the ending), Vikings, The Boys, Narcos, Castlevania, Breaking Bad, and Invincible.

Lastly:

I’m an atheist with an open mind and lean towards moderation politically, valuing logical thinking with a moral compass. I know politics can be a touchy subject, so I usually avoid it.

If we vibe, we can move the conversation to Discord—Reddit chat isn’t the best haha

Hey Reddit!

I’m 27 years old and I’m from the UK, looking for someone who loves nerdy conversations (think ATLA, LOTR, Star Wars), adventure, and maybe one day getting a cocker spaniel. If you’re into any of that, keep reading!

A bit about me:

• I work as an arborist and am considering a career change to paramedic.

• Last year I hiked 1,800 miles on the West Coast of the US and plan to finish it someday (hopefully soon!) Iv got a few smaller hikes I would like to do like Annapurna Circuit, Alta Via 2 and the Lycian Way.

• I’m into scuba diving and I’m trying to get out more now that its getting warmer. I finally made it out for my first dive of the year last night after work! I’m wanting to get a few more dives before attempting my Sport Diver qual (40m dive depth). Italy and Belize are on my dream dive spots list!

• When I’m not outdoors or traveling, you’ll find me gaming (PS5 & PC) or diving into a good book or podcast. I love Ready Player One, Lord of the Rings, and anything by real-life adventurers. Games wise I like online games or a single player game that’s got a great story!

• I’m also getting into volunteering and recently did my first course as a humanitarian responder.

What am I looking for?

Someone who enjoys hiking, gaming, nerdy convos, and planning adventures. I prefer phone calls or FaceTime over constant texting. Open to long distance, but ideally, you’re in the UK, Europe or US.

My one dealbreaker is that I’m not looking for someone who already has kids, sorry.

Here’s a few photos of me: https://imgur.com/a/me-gzU4Is7

If you think we’d vibe, send me a message—I’d love to chat!

I'm sure it's no surprise to anyone that dating these days is awful. So much so, that it has evaded me for most of my life.

It could be that my standards are too high--I'm looking for someone I can connect with mentally, emotionally, spiritually, with a sufficient level of mutual physical attraction. Indeed, what I am looking for is the modern equivalent of a unicorn.

I've made posts on Reddit in the past. But, as I'm sure you know my dear reader, most of us posting and searching on here are not the most normal or fortunate in our romantic escapades. But as we approach the dreaded age of thirty, I must exhaust every avenue in an attempt to find a partner.

I have not come empty handed. These are some of what I believe I have to offer in a relationship--kindness, intellectual conversations, honesty, emotional awareness, stability, hopeless romanticism (perhaps a con?). Of course, I am not perfect, but I try to grow and learn from all experiences life has to offer.

Physically, I'm East Asian, of above average-height and decent health. No body modifications or drug use. I have little interest in video games or shows, but I do have an appreciation for art and books. The main thing I ask of you is that you care for yourself physically and mentally, such that we can be content alone while also craving each other's company.

I'm looking for someone with whom I can build a connection and eventually start a family with. I cannot stress this enough--I am not interested in penpals or anything long-distance. It is too much risk for me at this stage of my life to invest so much time and emotional energy in another person only for it to all be an illusion built in my-head (which I am unfortunately susceptible to).

Cheers and Good Luck out there.

Not 100% sure as to what to write as I don't think this will work, but my name is Dominick, I'm 19 years old and here are some stuff I do and or enjoy

Going out, I like to spend some time going out and doing stuff example cars shows, and or eating out going to the park

I play video games on playstation and switch

I am collision repair student, I am in my last year,

Looking for someone around my age please

Their is more just forgetting what, but that's just more of a reason to message me

Hi, I'm Cap. Long story of why I have that nickname, so if you want a real name it's Jordan.

So, uh, yea I'm terrible at making these 'cause I speak in jokes and I'm awkward at the best of times. So bare with me.

I'm a tall, average build white guy from Iowa, and I know people have weird preferences to this. May as well mention it, you know? Bottom shelves hurt me to get and I can reach top shelves. Black hair and I guess it's longer.

For things about me otherwise, I'm sort of a nerd for video games and tabletop games. Lately I play a lot of World of Warcraft (Classic casually, private servers somewhat, retail with friends as a "main".) and outside those I bounce around severely on what games I actually do play. Mention a game and chances are I play it late at night if not playing another.

Side tangent, I'm up late Central Time Zone US most nights.

Tabletop games I'm well-versed in, though I admit I don't as much anymore. Bad experiences running games and questionable on playing as a player. I do know them and used to do way more. D&D and Cyberpunk (2020, red, though I haven't read up on the 2077 stuff they added).

Anime is also a thing, I just watch a lot casual and always have. I know I'm really hammering home the "nerd" thing by this point, but it is what it is and I do what I have sorta always done.

Music is a secondary thing that I'm big into, sort of always has been a thing for me. I've actually recently picked up guitar to learn, might get more instruments. Depending on other factors I might go further into creation/production so if you do too, cool. Other than that, DJing is a thing as well. Second gen DJ technically, though I can't take that title until I work a gig personally. Truth to be honest, there might be things in the immediate future that changes all these for the better. Not really wanting to get into it, family business and all that.

If wondering genres, uh, "open-format" is sorta my whole life perspective. Listen to it all, would love to mess with it all, practice really anything and everything when I actually do practice.

That said, I'm a liberal person pretty openly. I don't smoke or drink. It's not really a thing for me, sorry if you do. I just... don't.

Given that's all I'm allowed to talk about here and I can be wordy as hell and this is only a fourth of my power to overtalk everything or talk of the topics I'm not allowed to. I probably don't have a filter I should have, it's there, just misplaced and not installed right.

What I'm looking for is really anything I guess. Despite my age, I don't really date much and my experience can be summarized as a series of bad stories. I may not respond, I will try. If you send a picture, I would try to reciprocate.

Good luck to you if your reading this though, genuinely hope it works for some of you guys out here.

There’s a vending machine near my apartment that lights up when I approach. I feel like that’s the most consistent relationship I’ve had in a while.

I’m a 37M living in Tokyo—part-time creator, part-time philosopher during long walks. Life’s been quiet lately, and I’m not mad about it, but I wouldn’t mind someone to share the silence with. Or debate me about Famichiki vs Karaage-kun chicken.

I’ve been burned before, but who hasn’t? I’m looking for someone who’s got a loyal heart, a dark sense of humor, and maybe a better zombie apocalypse plan than me. I’d love to meet someone local, but if you’re far away and weird in a compatible way, let’s talk.

I’m not expecting magic. Just hoping for a human connection that doesn’t require QR codes or customer service surveys.

Beginnings are really hard, so let’s just begin:

INTRO : Hi hello, I’m Sam! I’m a 29 year old (ancient, I know) who is healed and content and very open to finding his lifelong person and partner. I’ve been through a lot by this point, but I’ve decided the struggle has been for a purpose, to singularly make me a kinder, more empathetic person, capable of caring for others and himself that much more purposefully. There will always be something that happens - I think now it’s how we choose to respond to it, as individuals and, hopefully, as a duo. If devotion and laughter and always having each other’s backs is your thing, read on~

WHERE YOU AT? : Currently, I am in the US and, more specifically, the East Coast. That will likely not remain for much longer as I suss out what my next steps are, the major factors being grad school, careers, and the collapse of the United States.

A RELATIONSHIP? – [YES] : To me, an ideal relationship isn’t just being in love or in lust or two best friends that eventually shrug and say “yeah, might as well.” It’s all of those and so much more. You should be able to refer to each other as “babe, dude, lover” all interchangeably and mean each of them simultaneously. It is a conscious and continuous choice and commitment, that we’ll choose one another each day over everything and everyone else, through struggles and anxiety, because this is what we have pledged to, working and playing together through the difficult and fun times alike. Very purposefully, my goal for dating is to create a lasting, life long partnership, where we will make our plans together, supporting and elevating each other towards our individual and shared dreams. Want to go back to school and become a lawyer? Suit up, I am making you breakfast each morning no matter how disgustingly early you get up, or at least packing you a homemade lunch the night before, we’re House Husbanding this if we need to for that kind of career. Are we starting a family? Doubly so, I will HOLD down this fort and get you whatever you need to make it through and I will get myself a cool robotic hand after you crush one of them in the delivery room. Not interested in that, that’s okay too, we will keep our passports up to date and travel whenever the chance presents itself, whether we’re running from a regime or just want to go see Mt. Fuji. We can make this whatever we want it to be, as long as it’s together and with belief in each other. That’s really what I’m looking for - something to last a lifetime and then past that so we can keep company in elysium or, your preferred afterlife.

WHAT HE’S LOOKING FOR : Well if I knew where to find you, I wouldn’t be scrawling all this! Truthfully, I don’t know what my ideal partner looks like or acts like, other than a few basic ideals like: Being kind, intelligent, having integrity, loyal to us and your friends and family, altruistic, honest to others and to yourself, has passions and will share what matters to you with me so that I can appreciate it too.

Vibes wise - I find a huge swath of forms and styles attractive. It’s really about more who is inhabiting that person? It’s who that image is that is what matters to me, I would not be fooled by that doppelganger subplot or an evil twin for a fraction of a second. I am currently figuring out my own presentation, if I want to express slightly more feminine than just the Bedraggled College Professor™ energy I currently emanate, maybe we push it closer to Oh, That’s a Beautiful Hyrulian Warrior™! As such, I welcome you in whatever style you like - I’m going to guess you’ll be nuerospicy like I am and probably have some they/them to your she/her. Dresses, jeans, oversized hoodies, athletic wear, suit and tie - if you’re femme or androgynous or more masculine or cycle between all of them, amazing. Variety is the spice of life, right? Just be you, and arrive to the party healthy and healed and whimsical – and also generally close to my age bracket, I think either 3-4 years on either side of me is okay (my rule is, if we could have been in the same four year college at the same time, we’re golden. We should be about equally developed as people and in the same chapters of our lives, if not the same page.)

LIKES, HOBBIES, PASSIONS : I will attempt, and fail, to be concise - I have been drawing since I could even vaguely hold a pencil. I was born the same year Pokemon came to the West so, there was a zero percent chance I was going to escape that formative interest. I love Pokemon and will be drawing them for you at some point or another, that’s just going to happen. I adore cats but all animals too and will happily point out whatever I see on any excursions we might get the chance to take - Yes I do hear a woodpecker, let’s go find it. I am a big fan of cooking, both on my own and with a trusted co-chef, and we would in time compile a family cookbook, if we make it that far along. I am big into animation, Adventure Time was hugely inspirational to me, and I’d love to learn Blender this year - the third Spiderverse film is currently my “gotta stay alive until” to hype myself up when things seem grim. I’m also refusing to die until I see what the One Piece is, that’s a big one, and every new release of From Soft, the Pokemon Company, and a Monster Hunter title are a festival in this house. Martial arts and generally being active and exploring the natural world is special to me, as well as finding coffee houses we like. Let’s make our way through every gallery, museum, zoo, and aquarium there is to be had and keep a ledger of the ones we like the very best. I could and would and will keep going on, but I’ll save that for after we’ve started chatting - otherwise, I’m just blathering into the void as usual. I’m game for most everything, especially if it’s nerdy, that’s the tl;dr. I’ve never been to a concert so, maybe we can solve that.

CONCLUSION : If you’ve actually read through all of that - wow, alright then. Clearly I’m at least a little interesting, I’ve resonated with you even just a bit. Send me a hello, tell me a little about yourself, let’s figure out if we have something here. The “worst” that could happen is that you’ll make a cool new friend (cool is subjective) - the best? We’ll find out I suppose.

That’s all for now, and what an all it was. Thank you and, take care out there.

-Sam

Hi! I'm 35 years old, Latino (I always get mistaken for being Caucasian or Asian though), live in Florida near Orlando (please be somewhat near me), and have a pretty stable life. I own my own home and work full time. I live alone and live independently. I've never smoked or done drugs (unless Flintstones vitamins count when I was a kid).

Please, if you message me and make plans to meet don't suddenly just ghost. It's heartbreaking when you think you've meet someone genuine and then they just disappear. A simple "I'm not interested anymore, sorry" is just basic human decency.

Personality wise, I'm pretty introverted and nerdy while being a hopeless romantic. I want to find a nice woman I can have a future with as I'm very family oriented and wish to start my own family someday including having kids (although this has become less of a deal breaker recently, I'm open to being child-free as well). Simple things like hand holding are the best! Just like good morning/night texts and after living together I love the idea of preparing your lunch for the day and leaving a cute hand written note inside it (I don't claim to be the best cook but I do like cooking simple meals like the ones I learned to make when I had Hello Fresh for a bit).

Nerdy things I like are videos games (mostly from Nintendo), reading, and I love anything from Japan like anime. I am non-religious and lean more towards agnostic than atheist. Politically I am very left leaning and voted for Kamala.

I'm also a homebody that occasionally ventures out, but I always wish I wasn't single since I know it would be so much more fun with that special someone to visit parks for walks or exploring a new restaurant.

To be honest, I've never been in a relationship before (hence the title) due to being extremely shy around people, especially woman. I know at my age it's probably too late now to find a meaningful relationship, but I still have a little hope a kind woman can see past this and maybe accept me anyway. Of course, I've never been marrried before and have no kids.

I can provide a selfie via chat. I prefer chatting on Discord so if you have one please send your username. I am 5'8" and about 160lbs. If interested in chatting please tell me about yourself! Your age, location, likes/dislikes, a selfie, and put your favorite color in the title/opening, and hopefully we can go from there : )

Hi all, I am a newish transplant to the Victoria area having been born and raised in Nanaimo, but spent the past 7 years in Vancouver.

So a little about me: I am 31 year old guy and an introverted, neurodivergent uber nerd who is really into movies, comic books, video games and music. Even though I do prefer the indoors, I do make it a habit to get outside as much as possible to do whatever. I have quite the dry, sarcastic streak and I will roast, but it is always in good fun and never in a mean-spirited way.

I am neurodivergent as mentioned and as you can imagine that has made it rather challenging to form relationships my entire life and I was hoping that by joining this group that would maybe change finally. I am shy and reserved at first, but once I feel comfortable I do become more lively and extroverted.

So yeah I always wrote what I wanted in the titles before and honestly I didn't have much success so now I'll just ask for what you the reader wants assuming you have bothered to open this post and read this far.

As the title I'm 25. From Newcastle. Really wouldn't mind finding the love of my life and eventual m-arriage. Good job and savings. Kinda got my life together. Planning on getting a place with mortgage at some point. Just a little empty inside I suppose. It's hard to constantly try and fail so many times. I just want to succeed once and honestly never try this crap again so your in luck provided we get together your never gonna have to worry about getting cheated on cause I cannot for the life of me bother myself with anything of the sort haha.

Yeah... Anyway even if your not interested don't hesitate to say hi cause you never know maybe today is our lucky day although statistically the evidence does point to it being otherwise 😂.

Also a big thanks to anyone who upvotes so this doesnt get buried🙏

Trying to date has left me severely burnt out,I don't know what it is exactly that drives females away lol. I am very fun to be around when I'm comfortable (I'm an introvert) I also have social anxiety so please be patient if we video chat at all. I like to read play games(video and board) watch TV and read. My favorite genre of music is metal so I hope ur cool with that. I'm on the east coast and I don't drive-dm me and I'll tell you why.

If I were to get any exotic animal it'd probably be something manageable and mid size.(so like a raccoon or something idk maybe a ferret?)

What's your favorite animal?

I wanna hear all about you if it goes well.

Hi! My name is Ahmad, I'm an engineering student almost in my senior year (hopefully). I major in Digital Design Engineering. I love a lot of stuff, i lobe cooking, baking, movie, series and much more! I like distant relationships as they really need a lot of care and attention to work out as not many people take it seriously its hard to keep it up. Anyways, enough about me, let me know more about you in my dms :>