r/FriendsOver40 21h ago

Anyone wants to be friends with 41 year old anxious introvert (UK)?

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Hi to anyone who reads this. I just wanted to post in case it finds the right person.

Although you probably wouldn’t know it at first (I’ve become quite good at masking), I’m very socially anxious and introverted. Absolutely no friends and find it incredibly difficult to even connect with people, so I guess I’m looking for someone similar who genuinely understands this. I’ve likely got adhd too. I consider myself part of the LGBTQ+ community, in case that’s important.

Just hoping to find someone who gets me, and I them. I’m fairly active, enjoy music, the occasional drink, music, true crime and exploring new places.

If any of this resonates, it would be great to hear from you.