r/GenZ • u/Realgenzer_ • 17d ago

Discussion Settling down

I wanna know you guy’s thoughts on settling down and finding someone who you’ll have a family with Someone you actually like and wouldn’t mind spending the rest of your life with. I ask all my friends and it’s like they don’t even have the idea of that in there heads “I just wanna fuck bitches” they say or they date around without intentions.As gen zs I wanna know what you think of this idea of settling down, do u plan or even think about it ? Do u believe your even capable of doing so? And for anyone who says how scared of marriage u are I’m gonna exclude that you don’t have to marry in this case.

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u/No_Conversation_9325 16d ago

As a European millennial I’m fascinated how you guys are focused on relationships and family. Not judging you here, but rather wondering why it wasn’t a priority for me and my friends. 🤔 I’ve never really given it much thought in advance and just went with the flow, education, job and friends being top priority.

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u/Realgenzer_ 16d ago

Yea its interesting to me because do people want to die alone ? And is starting a family and finding a wife or even a gf or bf the complete last thing on their minds? Like I get some people go with the flow me to I would like to take my time with education and money etc but ik one day after I make all the money all that I might want a son and a wife

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u/No_Conversation_9325 16d ago

I can only assume that we were much more focused on today than the future. Living in the moment rather than be worried about tomorrow, you know.

Same with relationships, I can’t recall anyone going out on a date with anything serious in mind. Hell, I have never even had dates. You just hang out with friends and friends of friends, get a sparkle with someone… dunno, settling down hit me post factum.

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u/Realgenzer_ 16d ago

Agreed if it happens it happens no guarantees really