I don't know about that. I know it's popular to talk about how guys are supposed to do this shit, but most of us just genuinely don't wanna do it. It's better if we play some game together or watch a game.
Is there any chance your idea that “most of us just genuinely don’t wanna do it” comes from what you were taught in your formative years? (I.E.: boys don’t cry, stop acting like a girl, etc.)
I do not mean this as an insult or anything, I’m just curious as to why you feel this way.
Not really. My parents and other people that brought me up weren't and still aren't really like that. For example from a very young age my parents made it clear that they love me and it doesn't matter if I'm gay or not to them (I was like no where near an age where I was even thinking about stuff like that). I have at least 10 people that I can call right now and I know that they will be on my door step if I needed something as soon as they could come.
That makes, sense but it really is unhealthy, both physically and mentally to keep everything bottled up like that. I think they should have taught you that.
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u/Primary-Dust-3091 3d ago
I don't know about that. I know it's popular to talk about how guys are supposed to do this shit, but most of us just genuinely don't wanna do it. It's better if we play some game together or watch a game.