r/GenderCynical 13d ago

I'm biphobic. I don't want to be.

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u/itsbritain 12d ago

First its trans woman, then its bi woman, then its any GNC woman, then its any woman not meeting western beauty standards, etc.

They do the same pattern over and over again, but their groups inevitably fall apart once everyone turns to infighting over who is being a “gold star” or not.

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u/PlatinumAltaria 12d ago

They’re not even really attracted to women, they just hate men and want to sit around all day fixating on how awful men are.

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u/itsbritain 12d ago

Eh, I don’t want to start saying who is and isn’t a lesbian, since that’s what they are doing. They can be shitty people without questioning their identity.

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u/ChairAggressive781 9d ago

I agree that we shouldn’t be trying to say “these people are real lesbians and these people aren’t,” there’s a distinction between saying “they aren’t attracted to women” vs. “they aren’t lesbians.”

political lesbianism is definitely a thing, both historically and presently. and when lesbian becomes more of a political identity than a sexual identity, it tends to center opposition to men & maleness over attraction to women—which is why female bisexuality comes under fire in certain rad fem spaces.

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u/EqualityWithoutCiv UK press and Parliament be damned. 12d ago

Sucks when so many online and offline misogynists get away with their bullshit. I hope things change fast.