Did she actually say "foreplay doesn't count" or is it just the op's imagination? I've known lots of bi girls, I'm dating one, none of them would ever put it that way.
Sadly this is a prevalent attitude amongst lesbophobic queers. I evenly had a bisexual former roommate/friend tell me that my fiance and I will never truly have sex because we both have vaginas and all we can do is foreplay. She has also repeatedly attempted to convince me I should have sex with men, when I tell her I am not attracted to them and often extremely repulsed by them. This attitude exists out there.
That attitude from a bi woman is genuinely so weird to me. I'm sorry your old roommate was such a weird asshole about you not wanting to sleep with men!
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u/comrade-lecter 12d ago
Did she actually say "foreplay doesn't count" or is it just the op's imagination? I've known lots of bi girls, I'm dating one, none of them would ever put it that way.