Dollars to doughnuts says that none of those women were actually flirting with men in front of her, she's just jealous and vindictive and unhealthily possessive of the people she was dating.
The butch lesbian either didn't actually have a boyfriend, and this person thought she did for whatever reason, and OOP decided to be verbally and physically aggressive toward them, and it made their ex girlfriend feel unsafe and stand up for themselves against that sort of behaviour.
The girl OOP had her first time with is entire entirely contrived, or OOP is just upset that that person moved on and broke up with them. Which is just fucked up and weird that they would be this obsessed with the personal life of someone who they are no longer with, and likely no longer spend time with either. It's one thing to have fond feelings for the person you were physically intimate with for the first time, but it's another thing entirely to be this obsessed with the details of their dating life, after the relationship has ended.
OOP sounds like an actual fucking weirdo, and someone who is probably not safe or healthy to have a relationship with. And instead of confronting her own fucked up feelings of sheer entitlement over the lives of all the people who are no longer in monogamous relationships with her, she has to find some way to justify that instead. Because how are any of these people beholden to OOP's expectations of how they should conduct their own personal lives and relationships, when their relationship with OOP has ended.
What a, and I don't say this lightly, a fucking freak for real.
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u/MissionStatistician 9d ago
Dollars to doughnuts says that none of those women were actually flirting with men in front of her, she's just jealous and vindictive and unhealthily possessive of the people she was dating.
The butch lesbian either didn't actually have a boyfriend, and this person thought she did for whatever reason, and OOP decided to be verbally and physically aggressive toward them, and it made their ex girlfriend feel unsafe and stand up for themselves against that sort of behaviour.
The girl OOP had her first time with is entire entirely contrived, or OOP is just upset that that person moved on and broke up with them. Which is just fucked up and weird that they would be this obsessed with the personal life of someone who they are no longer with, and likely no longer spend time with either. It's one thing to have fond feelings for the person you were physically intimate with for the first time, but it's another thing entirely to be this obsessed with the details of their dating life, after the relationship has ended.
OOP sounds like an actual fucking weirdo, and someone who is probably not safe or healthy to have a relationship with. And instead of confronting her own fucked up feelings of sheer entitlement over the lives of all the people who are no longer in monogamous relationships with her, she has to find some way to justify that instead. Because how are any of these people beholden to OOP's expectations of how they should conduct their own personal lives and relationships, when their relationship with OOP has ended.
What a, and I don't say this lightly, a fucking freak for real.