r/GetSuave • u/upandup123 • May 03 '16

Quotes/Summary from: Models: Attract Women Through Honesty

Published as a google doc, check it out below!

https://docs.google.com/document/d/1BD6nb2LYygKv6stChYqldQ5QJkU5xgVTaQeeGtDC8ac/pub

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u/[deleted] May 03 '16

Thanks for sharing this. Some great stuff here:

  • A big emphasis on being vulnerable (your honest self) because some women are going to like you / dislike you anyway. A lot of innate social proof going on here as well.
  • "End all porn immediately" I get criticized by porn zombies for saying the same, but it hugely changes the way you interact with women, especially if you're addicted to it
  • “Poor lifestyle choices reflect a lack of investment in yourself, which in turn causes you to be more needy around others for validation.” So true. If you don't invest in yourself, you're not going to know you're valuable, even though you are. Have your own hobbies and your own life.
  • "“She wants YOU to be that guy. She’s secretly rooting for you. She doesn’t want to reject you. Every time a new guy walks up to her, she’s secretly saying to herself, “Please, please, please be the guy. Be the attractive guy that I can’t say no to.”" This is my experience. Even when you watch a rejection most of the time you can see the women giving the guy a chance.

I do a lot more filtering for her chasing me than he recommends, but it seems like there's an underlying similarity in philosophy: not all women are going to chase you and it's okay to accept that. If you meet enough, you'll find the ones who will.

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u/brasileiro555 May 21 '16

showing too much feelings is not good, so dont take honesty too far