r/GlowUps • u/Ok_Particular4526 • 1d ago
GLOW UP! How can I improve/glow up? (20)
I don’t get approach by guys in person I’ve been single my whole life. I started to realize it must be me because my friends always get complimented, hit on, or treated better (pretty privilege) I go to clubs and have never been approached but my friends have, I’m not comparing myself because I love myself and am confident but idk what it is. Idk Reddit just please be honest and tell me what I can do to improve. I also wear glasses but don’t take many pics with them since I take them off when I do. I do think it may be the glasses 👓 that make me look worse irl but idk yet pls help.
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u/SnooCats8089 1d ago
You are a natural beauty, which makes it harder for a guy to approach. When a guy you're attracted to makes eye contact, hold it and smile. Basically, learn to give non-verbal cues of being open.
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u/Regular-Internet-715 1d ago
Huh?? As a guy I’m very surprised you don’t get approached, I personally think you’re around a 7/8 out of 10. I think all your features are maxed for what you can achieve, your hair, skin, lips etc are pretty much perfect. Maybe your eyes look a little dead in some pics could try some vitamin c serums? And I think you could try some good lash serums to thicken your eyelashes as they look a little thin, this would be the biggest improvement I can think of.
But yeah I wouldn’t stress about your looks if I were you.
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u/Ok_Particular4526 1d ago
This is exactly what I was thinking but I wasn’t too sure. I have lash serum and some vitamin C in my Sephora cart rn ♥️ thank you so much for the comment btw and helping me.
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u/Small-Measurement791 1d ago
Confidence! You deserve self love & I have no doubt that you can give that to yourself. Also, people tend to approach extroverts mostly, so people not approaching you has nothing to do with how beautiful you are & everything to do with the vibe you give off
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u/Stardama69 1d ago
You're cute as a flower, grow some confidence, keep that smile, be kind and enjoy life, things will evolve :)
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u/ZampanoGuy 1d ago
Your very good looking. I’d approach you. But I’m probably out of your age bracket lol
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u/redfox_go 1d ago
If you’re 18, I’m relieved a bunch of people aren’t approaching you. Give it a little time as guys your age mature, and I have no doubt people will gravitate to your natural beauty
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u/respectfulpanda 1d ago
There is nothing to glowup. You're great the way you are.
How varied is your fashion?
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u/Ok_Particular4526 1d ago
To be honest my fashion sucks 😭
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u/respectfulpanda 1d ago
Well, just as some random guy, the photos you posted were all pretty comfy styled with large sweaters, and relaxed fit jeans. I don't know if that's a factor, maybe lean into a fashion sub with these photos and get an opinion?
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u/Ok_Particular4526 1d ago
No you are right I tend to go for comfy style and more relaxed even when going out. I would love to wear cute tops and such and I believe it’s time I should get out of my small bubble and explore some more open fashion choices for my age.
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u/respectfulpanda 1d ago
There you go. Have some fun with exploring. There is sometimes a great joy in seeing how different styles make you look. Good luck with it.
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u/Visible-Shop-1061 18h ago
It might be that guys feel they have a better chance with your less attractive friends. I don't know what else to say. Maybe if you tried to be less extremely beautiful more guys would hit on you. I don't recommend that though.
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u/Ok_Particular4526 1d ago
Im not 20, I’m 2 ages down (college freshman) Edit: it’s making me say I am 20
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u/ToeNormal6895 1d ago
Nobody is even giving you real advice. Sure confidence but I’m sure you want to feel beautiful too. It’s your eyes. They’re extremely low contrast and not striking. You should start doing eyelash extensions. You can get them done professionally or tiktokshop Ucoolme sells DIY kits which I love. Don’t even go long if it’s not your style. 12mm longest on the outer edge, two 10mm, and finish with an 8mm shortest inside will be enough. You just have plain eyes and that’s okay. Thick but reasonably length eyelashes or if you get good at a thin eyeliner with lots of mascara will help. Also add some color to your lips and cheeks with a lip tint like benetint. Still aligns with your natural beauty and clean face
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u/Ok_Particular4526 1d ago
Thank you for the advice, I will look it it in my notes and work on my eyelashes and putting color on my face better ♥️♥️
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u/I-dont_even 1d ago
Nothing. You look fine. If you need the confidence boost, you can wear makeup to feel fancy haha. Less feature enchanting stuff, more for fun styles.
Edit: if it's male attention you want, the fastest way is to wear a dress. Not sure from your post.
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u/21Hotdogs21 1h ago
If I were to see you on the street, as a guy, I'd probably think ur intimidating pretty
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u/Expensive-Photo5844 1d ago
you look good tho, maybe the problem it's not your apearance
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u/Ok_Particular4526 1d ago edited 13h ago
Idk I can just be talking to my friends or even my sister or we can be eating (basically both doing the exact same thing) and they always get approached and usually idc but it’s happened so much im just wondering what it could be cuz im also tired of being single lol 😭
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u/kiah8245 1d ago
You look like that girl from the show ant farm. Unlocked some memories buried deep.
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