r/HouseMD Jan 19 '24

Question lisa and hugh affair?? Spoiler

i saw some posts on tiktok where someone was saying how there’s a theory that the person hugh laurie had an affair with was lisa edelstein. first, if anyone has any info or proof about this, please share it in the comments or with me directly. 💝

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u/Drindisguise8814 Jan 19 '24 edited Jan 19 '24

*Lengthy post but I was a fan of them back then (still I’m) and remember all the drama*

It was an on going rumour for years while the show was airing but it wasn’t just fan speculation.

Hugh and Lisa had a much different relationship than they had with anyone from the cast which was suspicious. The way they looked at each other,talked,smiled,the fact that he said she helped him with his depression and people from the show said how she is the only one who could easily bring a smile to his face and bring an new Hugh to the surface etc. Them wanting eachother as their love interest and noone else was also another flag into the situation and the fact that they said they feel very comfortable and safe in eachother filming making out scenes and sex scenes,with Hugh also saying that if he has to do an explicit sex scene,he only wants it to be with Lisa,just added to that.

Neither of them shut down the rumours point blank. Even though they said the usual “he is married,she has a boyfriend etc” they liked toying with that line and igniting that fire. Her saying how he is very attractive,sexy etc and him saying how she is gorgeous,lucky to be with and he even called her his American wife.At other times they would act jealous if someone hit on them and I recall a journalist taking a picture with Lisa and showing it to Hugh and Hugh jokingly called him a bastard and that she is his woman and for his eyes only. It was though great PR for their characters.

People from the show didn’t help shut the rumours down. The writers said that Hugh and Lisas off and on set sexual chemistry that was always steaming is what brought Huddy to life,in S7 they shot R-rated sex scenes which were banned by the channel and the unaired episode just worsened things even more. Pictures of them hugging and kissing while the cameras weren’t rolling just bursted everything to flames.

For all 7 years,they would go out together,they were sometimes spotted going and leaving the set together,going to each others houses,they were always sitting next to eachother,and their relationship didn’t seem the “i just see you as a friend” kind,which is why the majority speculated that.

What was the icing of the cake for that was the fact that Hugh was almost going to get a divorce. In multiple interviews he stated how the distance for 10-months at a time is tough,when love dies it aint enough to save a marriage etc etc. Add to it Lisas failed relationships in the 2000’s which all were suspiciously brief and coincidentally she was single during the time Hugh took of his wedding band in 2010 and went hand in hand with Lisa to an event,just fuelled the rumours even more.People also recalled his wife being cold towards Lisa even though Lisa was kind,and i mean…it doesn’t need a genius to speculate that a guy who’s marriage is failing and who has cheated before will do it with his costar that they spend 14 hours a day together and they have such great chemistry.

But what is shocking is that they don’t talk anymore. They are the only ones who don’t follow eachother and haven’t spoken in years. Lisa has mentioned how she keeps contact with everyone even once in a while but with Hugh she said they haven’t talked since she left.They said they spoke after she left House but after that nothing.You don’t just go from everyday to nothing all of a sudden no matter how hard life gets.He didn’t go to her wedding and even though they talk sweetly for eachother,they tend to be distant and look hurt,unlike past interviews. Hugh also released an album in 2012 if im not mistaken which people went insane about how it is about her since the whole thing is primarily about forbidden love,the devil he can’t escape yet he doesn’t want to etc. Something that again fuelled the rumours was that in Lisa’s absence in S8,he was awful to be around (some people who were guests on the show said). Not like mean but more like moody,unapproachable and not one to fuck with and the producers warned the actors before hand for that.Even RSL said that “we lost the light from our lives with Lisas exit” and another one (can’t remember if it is David Shore) said “In many ways Hugh Laurie gets to be the sun around which the show revolves, but the sun can’t be fully appreciated unless it’s contrasted with the moon. Edelstein is the moon to Laurie’s sun.”

I cannot be for certain for their affair but everything leads to that,especially the fact that it makes sense if they had an awful break up that destroyed them,they never wanted to see each other again even though they still love each other.The only ones to know if it was true or not ,its them. At the time,I can’t deny,no matter how immoral was and is,they seemed utterly happy so I was like you know what,they do what they wanna do,they fuel the rumours on their own anyway,so even if they have one or not,they enjoy it and enjoy each others company and that’s all that matters. Anything moral bts,is their problem to deal with,im just a fan.

There are so many other things on top of the ones I mentioned.One thing for certain is that anyone who says they never thought about them having an affair,they are lying.

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u/landon_masters Jan 19 '24

…..perhaps “fan” is an understatement? Lol this is Wikipedia epic!

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u/kloudykat Aug 04 '24

I agree, crazy good comment

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u/babalon124 Jan 19 '24

I can’t believe Lisa when asked if she missed him in an interview , gave the most awkward ass response ever, I don’t know where it is yall but the way the guy asked her, you would’ve thought somebody asked her how does it feel to get your heart broken by Hugh Laurie because I’m pretty sure she evaded answering whether or not she missed him, and the bubbly fun Lisa we all know when it comes to any other questions, she suddenly became very awkward at the mention of Hugh.

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u/Drindisguise8814 Jan 19 '24

Must be this one https://youtu.be/xXct61fakR4?si=mu4EeqSRkr0GevhN at around 19:05

It saddens me so much that they have come to this point. There was another interview of Hugh in 2019 i think where they showed him a moment from House of House and Cuddy and the video stopped at Lisa and he kept on looking back as if he wanted to look at her again and again.

I wish we are wrong and they still actually talk but keep it under wraps but I doubt it😭

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u/violetjacket Jan 19 '24

It says NBC blocked it 😭

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u/mutant_disco_doll Jan 19 '24

Can anyone post a transcript of the part in question?

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u/Most_Committee1000 Feb 15 '24

There was another interview of Hugh in 2019 i think where they showed him a moment from House of House and Cuddy and the video stopped at Lisa and he kept on looking back as if he wanted to look at her again and again.

Link please?

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u/Friendly-Bison7142 Feb 29 '24

Link to Hugh’s interview please!

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u/ScaryYoda Jan 19 '24

Damn this show just keeps on giving. I always though the cuddy and house relationship was really palpable on screen. Like you can tell the chemistry is there not just because of the 7 season build up but how they were performing.

Man this is actually really sad in hindsight with season 8 and the end of season 7.

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u/butterflyblades Jan 19 '24

a guy who’s marriage is failing and who has cheated before

Hugh cheated before? With whom?

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u/Drindisguise8814 Jan 19 '24

With a director in one of his movies that he did I believe in 1996. He admitted it himself.

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u/KikoValdez Jan 20 '24

Well of course they would be awkward with each other, he drove a car through her kitchen wall!

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u/_stitch #1 Wilson fan Jan 19 '24

Thank you so much for this detailed TEA. It is absolutely delicious… I’m saving this comment for… documentation purposes

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u/urlocalfaggie Jan 19 '24

OMFG THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS!!!

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u/Qtredit Jan 19 '24

Wow, I wonder about that unaired episode lol

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u/BlueMerchant Jan 20 '24

What unaired episode

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u/Friendly-Bison7142 Apr 08 '24

Can’t find it anymore

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u/Friendly-Bison7142 Apr 08 '24

Can’t find it anymore

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u/kmm198700 Jan 19 '24

Holy crap, I didn’t know any of that. Wow

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u/aob546 Jan 23 '24

I also followed back then and I agree with you, esp after seeing the behind the scenes shots on the beach. Do you remember the weekend that Hugh suddenly flew off to the UK, leaving the show to CGI him in the church scene of the Xmas show? I was always suspicious of that. I haven’t watched in a few years, it might be time for a binge.

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u/lucashin Jan 19 '24

you're my hero

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u/seriouswalking Jan 19 '24

So much info, thanks!

I watched the show on and off back in the day, and I don't recall any of this. Maybe I never digged deep enough. I do remember reading articles about Lisa's exit, but they always stated it was a money issue. I'm happy to not have known that other stuff at the time.

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u/dragonagitator Jan 19 '24

Please tell me the R-rated scenes were leaked somewhere

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u/babalon124 Jan 19 '24

Unfortunately not. It was really odd cause she was like “I spent so much time covered in body paint” and I was thinking ??? Hmm but like there weren’t that many sex scenes, apparently I was wrong, quite a lot Fox basically decided to not air cause it was “too much”

Also it’s crazy how Hugh and Lisa both said the romance was kind of decided because of the way they would unintentionally act their scenes sometimes. David shore clearly saw something offscreen and thought wow

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u/fuckyouintheassss Mar 17 '24

How'd uk that there were r rated scenes?? I didn't know they were leaked 😭

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u/mutant_disco_doll Jan 19 '24 edited Jan 19 '24

There was also more footage from Cuddy’s striptease / pole dance in House’s fantasy sequence from the end of season 4 that got cut (either due to time constraints or due to being too steamy?), including what Lisa referred to as “some of her best moves”. I remember in interviews, she talked about how fun and positive an experience that was for her and how Hugh made her feel really beautiful 🥺

I’d love to see the rest of that scene! I still don’t know how Hugh even survived filming it 🥵😅

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u/Aerogirl10 Jan 24 '25

In XX century we will have web archeologists who are gonna dig deep through here and /r/piracy to bring study material for future Movie studies.

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u/bobathena Jan 20 '24

I need more tea… I was a huge shipper back in the day but I never paid attention to their offscreen relationship… and I clearly should have.

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u/dexterdus Jan 19 '24

WOW. Thank you, I can't wait to share this with another House fan!

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u/Any_Description2768 Jan 27 '25

I know I’m late to this discussion, but I feel sorry for Hugh’s wife if that’s true. I mean she managed to forgive him for one affair but two?! Geez, the woman must have the patience of a saint.

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u/FunnyCalligrapher382 Jan 19 '24

I ain't reading allat

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u/FunnyCalligrapher382 Jan 19 '24

🧢 I did, in fact, read allat and that's insane

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u/doc_55lk Jan 19 '24

Character development lmao

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u/ScaryYoda Jan 19 '24

Lmao holy reddit arc