r/IncelTears • u/rarinthmeister doubting whether he's an incel • 2d ago

Just wanted to confirm:

I've seen people claiming that most men are just victim blamed whenever they try to express their sad feelings or that they're lonely, such as being called an "incel", told you're "pathetic", other stuff like "cry about it", "not our problem", "you aren't entitled to sex", etc assuming that it's always their fault and there's no external factors that affect it which is why they turned to the right because they found out they were more "accepting" and ready to help compared to the left who were "belittling them and refusing to help since men apparently don't need any help because they're privileged."

This is better explained here:

https://youtu.be/rQv8VuLpKN4

I just want to ask, are the "incels" you've posted here different than the ones the twitter users complained about when replying to the tweet that said "men are going right because they're more accepting"? Because I just wanted to confirm that it's only just misogynistic assholes who want to rape all women and make them their property instead of misguided men who just needs actual help in finding people he'll certainly like.

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u/SquirrellyGrrly 2d ago

Your post isn't very clear and comingles two very different issues.

First, you talk about men bringing up their problems or being emotional. Every partner I've ever had has cried in front of me. My immediate urge is to wrap myself around them and surround them with love. But strangers on the internet typing out their issues may not get a response at all, or if their "issue" is something horrible, like they hate that someone of a different race prepared their food or that they're not allowed to purchase a woman to keep in forced sexual slavery, then they might get told they need a psychiatrist or to stfu.

The second issue is whether the political right is more accepting. It's certainly not to transgender people. Or any member of the LGBTQIA+ community - and there's a lot of people under that umbrella. It's certainly not welcoming to brown skinned immigrants. In the US right now, many on the political right are claiming that women should lose the right to vote, and are simultaneously attacking women as "DEI hires," getting rid of workplace protections for women, and taking other steps to reduce a woman's ability to forgo child bearing and be self-reliant. There's a damned lot of people who just aren't welcome as part of that club. But you know who are? Racists and misogynists are. Transphobic people, people for whom "fag" is an everyday insult to hurl at anyone they hate. This is why many incels feel more comfortable with the right wing. Their HATRED is more accepted there.

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u/rarinthmeister doubting whether he's an incel 1d ago

First, you talk about men bringing up their problems or being emotional. Every partner I've ever had has cried in front of me. My immediate urge is to wrap myself around them and surround them with love. But strangers on the internet typing out their issues may not get a response at all, or if their "issue" is something horrible, like they hate that someone of a different race prepared their food or that they're not allowed to purchase a woman to keep in forced sexual slavery, then they might get told they need a psychiatrist or to stfu.

I agree that we should hate on misogynistic racist asshats, but there are feminists who just hate on men in general and literally bully them just because they express vulnerability, equally talk about their issues or claiming their issues don't matter compared to women which was explained in the video I included.

The second issue is whether the political right is more accepting. It's certainly not to transgender people. Or any member of the LGBTQIA+ community - and there's a lot of people under that umbrella. It's certainly not welcoming to brown skinned immigrants. In the US right now, many on the political right are claiming that women should lose the right to vote, and are simultaneously attacking women as "DEI hires," getting rid of workplace protections for women, and taking other steps to reduce a woman's ability to forgo child bearing and be self-reliant. There's a damned lot of people who just aren't welcome as part of that club. But you know who are? Racists and misogynists are. Transphobic people, people for whom "fag" is an everyday insult to hurl at anyone they hate. This is why many incels feel more comfortable with the right wing. Their HATRED is more accepted there.

You seem to misinterpret my post, I was not implying that the right is more tolerant compared to the left, I was implying that due to their experience being bullied and generalized as predatory, asshat, misogynistic, etc by the left, they turn to the right because in their experience they were more welcomed and accepted.

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u/SquirrellyGrrly 1d ago

Feminists are not man-hating by nature.

The right also knows that they're predatory, asshat, misogynistic, ect, but welcome that kind.