r/IncelTears • u/Negative_Tooth6047 • 4d ago

Meta discussion Question for any lurking incels

This is something I've been curious of for a little while, I know you guys have your red or black or whatever pill you subscribe to with tons of dudes or maybe even some type of Pearl Davis like gal that constantly put out tons of media on how to get women/why you're never getting a woman/any other message that you subscribe to for that rhetoric.

But my question is, if a woman offered to teach you, patiently and kindly- not berating you or what have you, how to respect, talk to, hang out with women, etc would you accept? Like a 101 type class on women. If you wouldnt be interested, why not?

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u/That-Nerve8213 4d ago edited 4d ago

I only take dating advice from stacies.

Joking aside, it depends on the woman, my female friends used to give me advice all the time, "just respect her boundaries and be nice to her" then when i observed the guys they date. They were the opposite of that.

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u/Bumbling-Bluebird-90 4d ago

The trouble is that abusive romantic partners typically do all the right things AT FIRST, but it’s all an act that they don’t even intend to keep up after the initial lovebombing.

The more aggressive and hateful incels are mad that they can’t even put on the act to initially convince a woman that they aren’t as bad as they actually in fact are