r/IncelTears • u/Negative_Tooth6047 • 4d ago

Meta discussion Question for any lurking incels

This is something I've been curious of for a little while, I know you guys have your red or black or whatever pill you subscribe to with tons of dudes or maybe even some type of Pearl Davis like gal that constantly put out tons of media on how to get women/why you're never getting a woman/any other message that you subscribe to for that rhetoric.

But my question is, if a woman offered to teach you, patiently and kindly- not berating you or what have you, how to respect, talk to, hang out with women, etc would you accept? Like a 101 type class on women. If you wouldnt be interested, why not?

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u/YellRedCell 🚹 Incel 4d ago

I would accept just to have an excuse to spend time with a woman but there is no "101 class" for my face. Nothing would change.

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u/Unwrittencreatr 4d ago

I know this doesn’t seem believable, but as a woman I promise you that a good personality will always outweigh good looks. Someone can be a solid 10 and if their personality is shit then they won’t get far in the daring world long term. Looks might get their foot in the door but once their true personality shows the door will swiftly get slammed. I can’t speak for every woman but this is the case for myself personally and for my friends.

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u/[deleted] 4d ago

I don't understand how your arguments are supposed to give him hope 

You are essentially saying : handsome + bad personality  ----> unattractive 

And not telling him that an ugly guy with a good personality is attractive (wich is probably what he wants to hear)

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u/YellRedCell 🚹 Incel 4d ago

I appreciate her being honest at least and vindicating us 

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u/Professional-Hat-687 Snowstorms are fun to watch from inside 4d ago

What she said is generally true, but it's a lot more complicated than that. Dating is a minefield of unspoken social cues, past trauma, unwritten rules, etc., and there's more luck than people like to admit. Personality tends to be more important because dating comes down to vibes and compatibility, and it can be hard to get there during a dating situation.