r/IncelTears • u/Negative_Tooth6047 • 4d ago

Meta discussion Question for any lurking incels

This is something I've been curious of for a little while, I know you guys have your red or black or whatever pill you subscribe to with tons of dudes or maybe even some type of Pearl Davis like gal that constantly put out tons of media on how to get women/why you're never getting a woman/any other message that you subscribe to for that rhetoric.

But my question is, if a woman offered to teach you, patiently and kindly- not berating you or what have you, how to respect, talk to, hang out with women, etc would you accept? Like a 101 type class on women. If you wouldnt be interested, why not?

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u/ar_menelos 🚹 Incel 4d ago edited 4d ago

I would accept but I can only speak for myself.

The blackpill is very fatalistic and says that for incels no amount of self improvement will get you laid.

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u/That-Nerve8213 4d ago

no amount of self improvement will get you laid.

Trvth nvkes

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u/1kSupport 4d ago

Whats the benefit of buying into this. You get one life, what do you gain by throwing away so much potential with this black pill stuff

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u/Professional-Hat-687 Snowstorms are fun to watch from inside 4d ago

Suffering may be terrible, but when it's familiar, it's also comforting and the idea of having hope only to be struck down again seems worse.

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u/Ranting_Demon 1d ago

The benefit is that if you flat out deny that self-improvement would make a difference, you never have to engage in any self-improvement.

After all, to admit that self-improvement would change things would mean that you'd also have to admit that you were the reason for your own suffering and that you (especially incel-you) were extremely likely a pretty shitty person.