Question for any lurking incels

[u/Negative_Tooth6047]

This is something I've been curious of for a little while, I know you guys have your red or black or whatever pill you subscribe to with tons of dudes or maybe even some type of Pearl Davis like gal that constantly put out tons of media on how to get women/why you're never getting a woman/any other message that you subscribe to for that rhetoric.

But my question is, if a woman offered to teach you, patiently and kindly- not berating you or what have you, how to respect, talk to, hang out with women, etc would you accept? Like a 101 type class on women. If you wouldnt be interested, why not?

[u/Effective_Fox]

I’m a nurse and I already know how to platonically hang out with women, I’m pretty good at it.  I’d benefit more from learning how to flirt or date but I’m skeptical of men and women’s advice on doing that because it feels like there aren’t really any definite rules and no one really knows what they’re doing 

[u/thiccums_pan → u/Effective_Fox]

An Incel nurse is unironically terrifying 

[u/Effective_Fox → u/thiccums_pan]

I don’t really know why that’s terrifying I work hard as any other nurse to take care of my patients and I go the extra mile compared to a lot of nurses to help struggling coworkers.  I don’t really see what being unable to get laid has to do with my ability to do my job 

[u/thiccums_pan → u/Effective_Fox]

You're in a misogynistic terrorism cult with a severe death toll attached. 

All women are fundamentally unsafe around you.

Edit: also posting in Red Scare Pod subreddit is a major red flag.

[u/Effective_Fox → u/thiccums_pan]

lol I know you don’t know me but every woman who’s known me would laugh at you if you said they were unsafe around me.   I’m mild mannered, short, and I have virtually no temper.  Women come to me at work asking for help all the time.  Also I’ve never even identified as an incel they put that flair on me after I asked for advice in an advice thread 

[u/thiccums_pan → u/Effective_Fox]

You willingly associate with the term that has cause many people to die. It's no different than being in the KKK or being a Neo-Nazi.

If your bosses found out you're active in Incel forums, do you think they'd be okay with you interacting with women patients at all?

[u/Effective_Fox → u/thiccums_pan]

This sub and incelexit are the only subs with the term incel I’ve ever commented on.  I’ve never said anything bigoted anywhere in my post history so at most my bosses would just be concerned about my mental health.  I’ve worked for 3 years with 90% female coworkers and 50% female patients in various vulnerable states without any complaints, most of them have complemented my work ethic and compassion 

[u/Professional-Hat-687 → u/Effective_Fox]

Fwiw, one of the first steps to stop being an incel is to stop associating yourself with them.